I got a date with a secret operative

Francisco d'Anconia

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My Name is Nobody said:
NO you DI'INT!

ahh man that sh!t still stings like hell.
:crackup: Bwaaaahahahahahahahahaha!!!!! :crackup:
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
:crackup: Bwaaaahahahahahahahahaha!!!!! :crackup:

what the hell is so funny? Don't bring her up again.

I found out the other day the whole office knows about our relationship. And she is the one who told people. Loudmouth crazy woman. I thought it was a secret. It ruined my day.

Now I know why that AFC who stalked her looks at me likes he wants to beat my a$$.

Just talking about her puts me in the foulest mood ever. I feel like I want to shoot myself.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
what the hell is so funny? Don't bring her up again.

I found out the other day the whole office knows about our relationship. And she is the one who told people.
And you're surprised about this because????.....
My Name is Nobody said:
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I thought it was a secret...
:crackup: Not with the way you were acting dude! I'm sure people were curious about what was going on between you two.
My Name is Nobody said:
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Now I know why that AFC who stalked her looks at me likes he wants to beat my a$$.
You are "Mr. Popularity" aren't 'cha? ;)
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Just talking about her puts me in the foulest mood ever. I feel like I want to shoot myself.
Cedd, does this answer your question?
 
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Let's get this thread back on topic.. My offer to go out with her Sat night is on the table. She tried to say she won't know if she has to work until Saturday.

Should I give her a call and talk to her (blech) or just not contact her at all?
 

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How about ending this thread.
 
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Well, I just nexted this b!tch... can you believe this?

I login to my messenger today at noon and she had sent me a message "Sorry, I have to work tonight. I just called and confirmed. Give me a holla or I'll just give you a call later"

I should have just said "fine" but I had to get a little worked up and say

"a phone call would have been nice"

Then she pops online (she must have been invisible) and starts with her b!tchy attitude.

She's like "blah blah I told you I might have to work we only went out once and you are acting like this? YIKES"

I was like "WTF are you talking about? I don't care if we go out again, and I don't care if you have to work. All I'm saying is a phone call would have been nice."

Then she's like

"you have an attitude, you don't care if we go out again?"


Then I told her I was going to call her on her attitude weeks ago.. and then I told her don't worry I'll call her 10 times tonight to see how she's doing.. LOL.

I was joking about that ofcourse, then I deleted the b!tch from my messenger and my phone. I'm pretty sure she is lying about working tonight. She told me she works a second job on the weekend at some small retail store. I'm sure she's on call for that.

Whatever .. Did I jump the gun on this or was nexting the right thing? I'm just sick of the attitude and games. Any last minute funny message I can hit her with? yeah... tired of wasting my time.
 

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Either she's done for good, or if she does get back 2 you (??), she needs her candle lit & you need to wax dat.
 
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I didn't want to bump this up because I'm afraid to jinx it.. but we are meeting Friday night for another date.. should be good.. should be real good!

You guys have anymore C+F lines that I can use? Those other one's were great...
 

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first of all, let me start by saying....

DON"T LISTEN TO MY ADVICE IF YOU DON'T WANT!

Now what I have to say or rather ask you what you are doing with this woman. Are you entertaining us or rather onto a sexual encounter with this girl? I don't see any chance of this chick doing the real thing with you. Don't get me wrong, dude! But she is probably pissed off with your jerky attitude.

How have you qualified her and did she qualify herself? :yawn:

Why would you keep play so stupid hard to get and not focus on creating a connection with her? She is a girl who can benefit from you, a MAN! ok, I agree being interesting is cool. But remember it when I say "Attraction is giving her a reason why she would qualify herself to you and get to know you better, and that is not the main stage but the must groundwork to play your game on her". You are not like the other guys, you are interesting but not an entertainer, of course! That is it. Keep spicing up a little when you see the fire waning off. If she asks you your last name in a serious tone (just to know you better), then why would you not let her know that? Having a little fun, messing with her a little is fun but don't overdo it. You would kill all the attraction. You need to play along with her. Calibrate according to the chick!

Focus on being the sexually hot guy who can be cool in social situations and you don't need her but you definitely care and enjoy being with her.
 
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The date went fine and I got a little further. There should be another date soon.
 
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Now that I think about it, she just seemed nervous the whole time and she couldn't think of anything to say.

I bet she just can't believe she has met a DJ like me and she doesn't know how to act. She keeps waiting for me to be weird, psycho, or all of those in one.. AFC.. and it's not going to happen.

Because 99 percent of guys, by the second date have probably become AFC.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
Now that I think about it, she just seemed nervous the whole time and she couldn't think of anything to say.

I bet she just can't believe she has met a DJ like me and she doesn't know how to act. She keeps waiting for me to be weird, psycho, or all of those in one.. AFC.. and it's not going to happen.

Because 99 percent of guys, by the second date have probably become AFC.
You - a DJ? :crackup:



Mate, I don't mean to be harsh, but I've just read this entire thread and you seem pathetic - asking for C&F lines on the internet and chasing the girl on the phone, total AFC.

A DJ does not drool over one girl - so what if you kiss closed her in under 2 hours? You're running after sex like a crazed, panting puppy dog.

Work on inner game my friend. Work on developing the types of traits you look for in women to attract into your life. Things will flow effortlessly once you begin to understand and develop yourself.

You won't need to ask people on forums "guys!!11 I need ur help! What do i say now!?!" to babysit you.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
Don't be jealous.

Don't be that guy my friend, I'm only helping you out. Its hard to see anything else if you've already got a rubbish perception of the world that works to your detriment.

Just realize there are other models of thinking you can adopt, and through that, you'll start to question whether your way of thinking gets you the results that you want, and if theres other models out there that can bring you everything that you've ever imagined. :up:
 

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Instead of skimming the surface with your witty jokes, question whether your getting the results you want with your current way of thinking. ;)
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
Well, I just nexted this b!tch... can you believe this?

I login to my messenger today at noon and she had sent me a message "Sorry, I have to work tonight. I just called and confirmed. Give me a holla or I'll just give you a call later"

I should have just said "fine" but I had to get a little worked up and say

"a phone call would have been nice"

Then she pops online (she must have been invisible) and starts with her b!tchy attitude.

She's like "blah blah I told you I might have to work we only went out once and you are acting like this? YIKES"

I was like "WTF are you talking about? I don't care if we go out again, and I don't care if you have to work. All I'm saying is a phone call would have been nice."

Then she's like

"you have an attitude, you don't care if we go out again?"


Then I told her I was going to call her on her attitude weeks ago.. and then I told her don't worry I'll call her 10 times tonight to see how she's doing.. LOL.

I was joking about that ofcourse, then I deleted the b!tch from my messenger and my phone. I'm pretty sure she is lying about working tonight. She told me she works a second job on the weekend at some small retail store. I'm sure she's on call for that.

Whatever .. Did I jump the gun on this or was nexting the right thing? I'm just sick of the attitude and games. Any last minute funny message I can hit her with? yeah... tired of wasting my time.
How did you turn this around into a date Friday? You left that part out.
 
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amoka said:
I believe he has a date with a different woman.
Nope, it was the same girl...

ketostix said:
How did you turn this around into a date Friday? You left that part out
After I was a jerk and nexted her in that chat, she texted me that night. Then I tried to call her again since she texted me. And ever since she has been texting me every night.
 
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