"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I good way to overcome girls' powers of LOOKS!

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Generally speaking...
Handsome guy will find HB10 HOT. An UGLY guy will HB10 HOT.

When you talk to HB10, the reason its more difficult is because they are RARE.

In this world RARE things are valued so much more! Most girls are HB7 or below I think.

So, when an ugly girl tries to play games with you - who cares! She is ugly and has no power. Her opinion isn't worth anything!

HB10 plays games, disses you - her opinion is worth a LOT because she is rare and carries that power of looks.



Now, what you have to realize is that if HB5 finds YOU attractive in looks and behavior, then so will HB10!

HB5 will go for uglier guys because she can't get better ones but she will still want you.

So, its all about how much power you GIVE to a person.

Its difficult with HB10s and 9s because this power assignment happens on some unconscious level!


So, if you get an honest opinion about your looks and behavior from HB6 and then you look and act same with HB10 then she is likely to think the same of you as HB6.


Don't make hot girl's opinion matter more than any other girls because they all like and want the same thing!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Babnik, I'm sorry that's not true on the field. My GF a 7 on a 1 to 10 scale doesn't know much about man style. But another co-worker a 5 would tell me if that shirt goes better with those shoes/pants or not.
 

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nvictor said:
Babnik, I'm sorry that's not true on the field. My GF a 7 on a 1 to 10 scale doesn't know much about man style. But another co-worker a 5 would tell me if that shirt goes better with those shoes/pants or not.
I meant body and face-wise...
 

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But you're still not right. Looks are relative. If the girl is really ugly and you are average, chances are she will think you're hot and tell you so. The reason why is that she doesn't want to admit that you're average because that makes her ugly in her own eyes. Plus she is probably giving you a complement so that you feel good about yourself and therefore you will like her more. Other girls that find you hot will actually try to make you feel ugly to make you feel insecure so they can move on you. Different girls use different techniques - it normally tells you what kind of girl she is. Either way, you shouldn't give too much credibility to what people say.

You can only trust that you're hot if you have been told it by a good looking girl that you're ****ing.
 

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Babnik said:
Its difficult with HB10s and 9s because this power assignment happens on some unconscious level!
Now that really would be somthing to see!

"Hey Tiffany, pass me the choloroform I need to brain-wash this guy so he lusts after me..."

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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d9930380 said:
But you're still not right. Looks are relative. If the girl is really ugly and you are average, chances are she will think you're hot and tell you so. The reason why is that she doesn't want to admit that you're average because that makes her ugly in her own eyes. Plus she is probably giving you a complement so that you feel good about yourself and therefore you will like her more. Other girls that find you hot will actually try to make you feel ugly to make you feel insecure so they can move on you. Different girls use different techniques - it normally tells you what kind of girl she is. Either way, you shouldn't give too much credibility to what people say.

You can only trust that you're hot if you have been told it by a good looking girl that you're ****ing.

No. I said have an HONEST answer from any HB! Not an answer that she feeds you to make you like her! Like, if HB1 would image she is HB10 and believe it and then grade you.
 

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So, I used to hang out with a girl that was about a 6. She was doable, but not all that special, and she told me I was hot, and her friend told me I was hot. So, I think that means I'm hot.(I'm not bragging)
 

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I don't understand this post at all.:confused: I don't understand the message you're trying to get across and I don't understand what the value of this knowlegde would be if I did understand ...which I don't.:confused:
 
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