"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I good way to overcome girls' powers of LOOKS!

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Generally speaking...
Handsome guy will find HB10 HOT. An UGLY guy will HB10 HOT.

When you talk to HB10, the reason its more difficult is because they are RARE.

In this world RARE things are valued so much more! Most girls are HB7 or below I think.

So, when an ugly girl tries to play games with you - who cares! She is ugly and has no power. Her opinion isn't worth anything!

HB10 plays games, disses you - her opinion is worth a LOT because she is rare and carries that power of looks.



Now, what you have to realize is that if HB5 finds YOU attractive in looks and behavior, then so will HB10!

HB5 will go for uglier guys because she can't get better ones but she will still want you.

So, its all about how much power you GIVE to a person.

Its difficult with HB10s and 9s because this power assignment happens on some unconscious level!


So, if you get an honest opinion about your looks and behavior from HB6 and then you look and act same with HB10 then she is likely to think the same of you as HB6.


Don't make hot girl's opinion matter more than any other girls because they all like and want the same thing!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Babnik, I'm sorry that's not true on the field. My GF a 7 on a 1 to 10 scale doesn't know much about man style. But another co-worker a 5 would tell me if that shirt goes better with those shoes/pants or not.
 

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nvictor said:
Babnik, I'm sorry that's not true on the field. My GF a 7 on a 1 to 10 scale doesn't know much about man style. But another co-worker a 5 would tell me if that shirt goes better with those shoes/pants or not.
I meant body and face-wise...
 

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But you're still not right. Looks are relative. If the girl is really ugly and you are average, chances are she will think you're hot and tell you so. The reason why is that she doesn't want to admit that you're average because that makes her ugly in her own eyes. Plus she is probably giving you a complement so that you feel good about yourself and therefore you will like her more. Other girls that find you hot will actually try to make you feel ugly to make you feel insecure so they can move on you. Different girls use different techniques - it normally tells you what kind of girl she is. Either way, you shouldn't give too much credibility to what people say.

You can only trust that you're hot if you have been told it by a good looking girl that you're ****ing.
 

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Babnik said:
Its difficult with HB10s and 9s because this power assignment happens on some unconscious level!
Now that really would be somthing to see!

"Hey Tiffany, pass me the choloroform I need to brain-wash this guy so he lusts after me..."

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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d9930380 said:
But you're still not right. Looks are relative. If the girl is really ugly and you are average, chances are she will think you're hot and tell you so. The reason why is that she doesn't want to admit that you're average because that makes her ugly in her own eyes. Plus she is probably giving you a complement so that you feel good about yourself and therefore you will like her more. Other girls that find you hot will actually try to make you feel ugly to make you feel insecure so they can move on you. Different girls use different techniques - it normally tells you what kind of girl she is. Either way, you shouldn't give too much credibility to what people say.

You can only trust that you're hot if you have been told it by a good looking girl that you're ****ing.

No. I said have an HONEST answer from any HB! Not an answer that she feeds you to make you like her! Like, if HB1 would image she is HB10 and believe it and then grade you.
 

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So, I used to hang out with a girl that was about a 6. She was doable, but not all that special, and she told me I was hot, and her friend told me I was hot. So, I think that means I'm hot.(I'm not bragging)
 

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I don't understand this post at all.:confused: I don't understand the message you're trying to get across and I don't understand what the value of this knowlegde would be if I did understand ...which I don't.:confused:
 
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