“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I get the jist of dating and being cool and collected but how can you trust her?

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I know you never ask exclusivity and you just show them good time and don't get too invested and first month do once a week dating. But how do you know basically when you kinda do want to see her more or want to do more for her or with her but she isn't sure about being with you?

Not sure if you guys understand my question fully but I hope so
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Okay basically from my last girl i know she said wanted to do nice things for her you know seemed like wanted me to do more or show I appreciated her and try to keep her or whatever etc....
How do you guys know or when do you guys normally do romancing or nice dates or spend money on her or do more with her or for her?
If you dont know exculisivity
 
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The girl I was with told me she felt like friends with benefits and like I guess didn't do a whole bunch of things I would take her out on dates and dinner and she come over my house but said she felt like friends with benefits. So what would be examples of her not to feel like that for women in future??
 
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I just need answers and advice on all these questions I would greatly appreciate I would have better understanding and be able to know keeping a woman more then few months if I know these things. Thanks again!
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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my bad if dont understand. What I am saying is when she feels like friends with benefits what do you do normally during dating process to make her not feel like that? Also when do you usually do more like after a month? etc... Like how do you know when you can start seeing her more then once a week and setting up more dates and having her come over etc....? What do you guys normally do for romancing or dates after a while of dating a woman?


Not sure if you do flowers chocolate or gifts I mean first month I wouldn't think so but advice on these questions appreciated. Thanks
 
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When a girl brings up the FWB thing and you want to take things further. Right then you have to talk to her about it. When it's clearly HER wanting something from YOU.

I'd just tell her it's not like that, that she's a great girl, etc. Just don't try to commit or anything right then. And maybe start being a little more serious with her. Ask her for her opinion on stuff, plan more things together.

You always want to take advantage of your freedom and lack of commitment. Your freedom has to exist and be a thing in her mind. She has to see you are going out and having fun with women away from her. Like this she is going to want all that attention for herself eventually. Trust me a day will come when you tell her you are booked for Saturday with a group of guys and girls and she's not one of them. When she tells you she doesn't want you to be around other women. You have to play the jealousy card a bit on most girls. Women really understand jealousy...

Speak her language...

Just don't pass it with her, there are very fine lines between jealousy and emotional destruction. You have to give it to her in a way she can deal with it. You're with other women that are showing interest in you...
 
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