"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I get the jist of dating and being cool and collected but how can you trust her?

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I know you never ask exclusivity and you just show them good time and don't get too invested and first month do once a week dating. But how do you know basically when you kinda do want to see her more or want to do more for her or with her but she isn't sure about being with you?

Not sure if you guys understand my question fully but I hope so
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Okay basically from my last girl i know she said wanted to do nice things for her you know seemed like wanted me to do more or show I appreciated her and try to keep her or whatever etc....
How do you guys know or when do you guys normally do romancing or nice dates or spend money on her or do more with her or for her?
If you dont know exculisivity
 
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The girl I was with told me she felt like friends with benefits and like I guess didn't do a whole bunch of things I would take her out on dates and dinner and she come over my house but said she felt like friends with benefits. So what would be examples of her not to feel like that for women in future??
 
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I just need answers and advice on all these questions I would greatly appreciate I would have better understanding and be able to know keeping a woman more then few months if I know these things. Thanks again!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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my bad if dont understand. What I am saying is when she feels like friends with benefits what do you do normally during dating process to make her not feel like that? Also when do you usually do more like after a month? etc... Like how do you know when you can start seeing her more then once a week and setting up more dates and having her come over etc....? What do you guys normally do for romancing or dates after a while of dating a woman?


Not sure if you do flowers chocolate or gifts I mean first month I wouldn't think so but advice on these questions appreciated. Thanks
 
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When a girl brings up the FWB thing and you want to take things further. Right then you have to talk to her about it. When it's clearly HER wanting something from YOU.

I'd just tell her it's not like that, that she's a great girl, etc. Just don't try to commit or anything right then. And maybe start being a little more serious with her. Ask her for her opinion on stuff, plan more things together.

You always want to take advantage of your freedom and lack of commitment. Your freedom has to exist and be a thing in her mind. She has to see you are going out and having fun with women away from her. Like this she is going to want all that attention for herself eventually. Trust me a day will come when you tell her you are booked for Saturday with a group of guys and girls and she's not one of them. When she tells you she doesn't want you to be around other women. You have to play the jealousy card a bit on most girls. Women really understand jealousy...

Speak her language...

Just don't pass it with her, there are very fine lines between jealousy and emotional destruction. You have to give it to her in a way she can deal with it. You're with other women that are showing interest in you...
 
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