"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I get the Cold All the time. Any advise?

K_21

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Gentlemen,

I am a pretty active person. I Trains two day a week in Muy Thai and the other days try to pump iron to bulk a little.

My problem is I always seem to get colds. It's becoming annoying to say the lease because as I'm getting fit and want to push myself a little harder the cold sets in an I need to take a week off to recover.

Is it because I workout too much? (I don't think so) or my diet? any help from you guys are appreciated.

Thanks
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"Don't stay in bed, unless you can make money in bed."
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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blong1068

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Take a multivitamin. Also make sure you get 1000 miligrams of vitamin C a day.
 

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How many times a week do you lift? What's your diet? Do you get enough calories, protein & vitamins (from fruit)?
It could be overtraining or bad nutrition or more probably both, but tell us more.
 

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Have you always had colds when you were young or did this develop noticably when you started training?

Im stabbing in the dark, but make sure you are getting plenty of sleep, more than 8 hours if you are very active. Dont drink alcohol right before bed because it disrupts the sleep process, causing less of the REM goodness to occur.

If you are stressed out this may also impact your immune system. Find more ways to relax.

Im assuming you are eating a healthy diet, with fruits and vegetables. If not include more.

And what blong1068 said.
 

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Guys thanks for all that good advise,

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How many times a week do you lift? What's your diet? Do you get enough calories, protein & vitamins (from fruit)?
It could be overtraining or bad nutrition or more probably both, but tell us more.
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To answer the above question I try and lift 3 - 4 times a week. (eg: Monday, Wednesday, Friday and may be either Saturday or Sunday. Tuesday and Thursday I Thai box). My diet is not the best I accept. Any sites you can tell me where I can find out more about diet?? or more so to customise it to my needs.

Cheers
K_21
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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And prevent physical factors (e.g. running naked in snow, running around a cold house naked, etc).
 
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