"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I get the Cold All the time. Any advise?

K_21

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Gentlemen,

I am a pretty active person. I Trains two day a week in Muy Thai and the other days try to pump iron to bulk a little.

My problem is I always seem to get colds. It's becoming annoying to say the lease because as I'm getting fit and want to push myself a little harder the cold sets in an I need to take a week off to recover.

Is it because I workout too much? (I don't think so) or my diet? any help from you guys are appreciated.

Thanks
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Take a multivitamin. Also make sure you get 1000 miligrams of vitamin C a day.
 

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How many times a week do you lift? What's your diet? Do you get enough calories, protein & vitamins (from fruit)?
It could be overtraining or bad nutrition or more probably both, but tell us more.
 

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Have you always had colds when you were young or did this develop noticably when you started training?

Im stabbing in the dark, but make sure you are getting plenty of sleep, more than 8 hours if you are very active. Dont drink alcohol right before bed because it disrupts the sleep process, causing less of the REM goodness to occur.

If you are stressed out this may also impact your immune system. Find more ways to relax.

Im assuming you are eating a healthy diet, with fruits and vegetables. If not include more.

And what blong1068 said.
 

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Guys thanks for all that good advise,

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How many times a week do you lift? What's your diet? Do you get enough calories, protein & vitamins (from fruit)?
It could be overtraining or bad nutrition or more probably both, but tell us more.
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To answer the above question I try and lift 3 - 4 times a week. (eg: Monday, Wednesday, Friday and may be either Saturday or Sunday. Tuesday and Thursday I Thai box). My diet is not the best I accept. Any sites you can tell me where I can find out more about diet?? or more so to customise it to my needs.

Cheers
K_21
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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And prevent physical factors (e.g. running naked in snow, running around a cold house naked, etc).
 
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