"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I get rejected for my job a lot

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I'm 34 and have no education and work night shift with a menial job. I get rejected a lot for my job. In recent time there was one woman I approached IRL, we were talking and she seemed to like me. She kept asking about my job and when she learned that my job only requires a week's training she said "I should leave, see you" and walked off. Then I was chatting to maybe 5-10 Chinese women from a dating app who were coming to my country on business trips. They all ghosted me and it seemed pretty obvious it was because of my job, in some cases very obvious.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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just lie. That's what I do lol.

I remember banging a hot girl once at some win bar, and I KNEW that she was kind of a job snob and that i'd blow it with the truth, so I literally STOLE my best friends life story and used his university, job title/job description etc as my own and got the lay lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Plasticbucket said:
I would like to answer but I feel I can't. After I met a person from a forum IRL I'm hesitant to give much revealing details about myself online.
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Do you clean the sh!t out of toilets with a toothbrush all day long?
 
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Mods, time for the Ban hammer before we have another Big Dave want to be!
 
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It isn't necessary for her to know about your job before you have had sex. And you also should start approach younger girls, not women in their thirties.
 
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Plasticbucket said:
They all ghosted me and it seemed pretty obvious it was because of my job, in some cases very obvious.
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What’s the difference between pretty obvious and very obvious?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Embellish and make yourself the manager of your position. Work on yourself a the same time. You can go to university if you're going to pursue an in demand field. If not, trades pay well. You could be an electrician or a plumber and be fine for the rest of your life.
 
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