"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I get really self concious around all women

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I get really self concious around all women. I've noticed that when I'm at work and I'm around a woman I become self concious and clumsy. In one of David D's DVDs, he says that women notice if a man is disrupted by her feminine energy. For some reason I become extremely disrupted by feminine energy, especially if I know the girl.

Sometimes it's hard for me to think straight if I'm doing a task at work and a women is nearby. This makes it very difficult for me to be smooth . I guess it's a kind of performance anxiety. On the DVD, David D doesn't give a remedy for this problem. Do you guys have any suggestions? Maybe some kind of NLP based techniques?

-guittarjedi
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Stop putting women up on pedestals.. They are only human. If you need to, try and see them as dorky girls themselves. They are nothing more than you and downgrading them in your mind could work. It might also help to assume from the start that they are into you so you are the one in control.
 
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The key is to get your own energy. See if you have you have your own life you won't worry about other people around you.

Start working on your physical appearance. Start playing some sports. Get yourself busy with things that improve your career, relationships with friends, health, fun stuff.

Then you'll create your own energy that won't be influenced by a women's in your proximtiy.
 
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