"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i get paid to talk to girls!

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well not exactly...

i recently joined a networking company in which i recruit investors.

again this isnt the point lmao..

i recently got recruited, and my plan is to stand by the mall and ask random strangers if they wanted to join... (im sure some will because of the fact that u can earn like 600$ per week)

i will be showing them the money and i will be convincing them to attend the seminar, in which they will be convinced to join and alas.. well that's my job.

but this isnt it, im planning to recruit packs of hot girls... so not only am I working, I am also sharpening my social skills & the art of the COLD APPROACH... isnt my job great? :D w00t!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sure, but it's not the same as a cold approach. Cold approaches don't have incentives, only the ones you create.
 

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Sure thing - just don't become too complacent in one set routine. You'll find out what I mean by this after about your third day in. Also, don't be surprised when mall security escorts you off of the premises (unless you've thought ahead and contacted the management to be sure that soliciting is accepted on their property...)

Edit* Renegade - Sure, cold approaches have incentives! Why are you making the approach in the first place?!
 

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Originally posted by [T]he ishop


Edit* Renegade - Sure, cold approaches have incentives! Why are you making the approach in the first place?!


Yes but you have to create the incentives. Where as, when your being paid to approach, there's already a premade incentive.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Re: Re: i get paid to talk to girls!

Originally posted by Mercenary
Not as great as working at a women's retail clothing store :p
I work at Abercrombie. :p

Oh, and Ren... to me, getting booty is right up there with getting paid. Both are strong incentives, and should be for anybody.
 

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Originally posted by [T]he ishop
Edit* Renegade - Sure, cold approaches have incentives! Why are you making the approach in the first place?!


It's different with business or when you have some other incentive besides picking the girl up. I know from two scenarios (sp?).

For my work I sometimes have to cold approach people be it guy's, women (and I got some young, hot clients too... but they're all married :-( ), whatever and it's a lot easier when I approach for business. I'm confident because I know what I'm doing, can answer any questions they have, and know different sale pitches.

I had a party at my place and we needed more people at the party and I went around and I was talking to every woman I was seeing and trying to get them to come. It was a lot easier when I had the mission in my head of inviting them to my party and not, "i want to get her phone number or get a date with her or whatever."

For a cold approach it's the incentives you create that will get you to do it when you don't have another mission.
 

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Absolutely - and I think that you've hit upon a very quality point. When you have a specific MISSION in mind, you are far more likely to succeed as opposed to just thinking "Okay, I'm going to try to go out there and try to talk to some girls..." This is why the DJ boot camp is so successful - it GIVES you the mission, and you have to work at completing it.
 

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True but if your not experienced with having missions and succeeding in business or socially, then you will in most cases fail.
 

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Originally posted by R3N3GAD3
True but if your not experienced with having missions and succeeding in business or socially, then you will in most cases fail.
in this case, i really could care less about rejection, because i know if they reject my offer, it is because they are not interested in my business, and not my.. myself.. u know what i mean.. lol.

in that case, after a rejection, i can just move on to another person or group of people.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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-.-

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Originally posted by [T]he ishop
Sure thing - just don't become too complacent in one set routine. You'll find out what I mean by this after about your third day in. Also, don't be surprised when mall security escorts you off of the premises (unless you've thought ahead and contacted the management to be sure that soliciting is accepted on their property...)

Edit* Renegade - Sure, cold approaches have incentives! Why are you making the approach in the first place?!


Thank you for the kind warning about the security as solicitation.

But it's a big mall, and i'll be roaming around just sort of like making friends. nothing wrong with that. ;)

they really wouldnt know what we are talking about, i'm just dressed like another civilian.
 

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Originally posted by wolfie
This sounds like a pyramid scheme to me.
It's pretty much like a pyramid.. But it's different. It's pairing.

It's illegal in most places, but not here.

I get 2 people and I earn 80$. My work is pwn. My upline is strong, just bought a new Beemer (BMW). :D
 

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Originally posted by [T]he ishop
This is making it's way into "Anything Else"-land, with that last comment...


I'm gonna let this play out a bit before deciding.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by -.-
in that case, after a rejection, i can just move on to another person or group of people.
The whole point of the bootcamps and stuff like that is to not be affraid of personal rejection. Actually be rejected and being able to move on after that. So this job is not gonna help you with that.

But sure, there are some advantages to talking to total strangers. You'll probably learn to smalltalk and overcome initial shyness. The key here is though, after your experiences on the job, can you cold approach a girl without trying to offer her something business-like?

Either way, I wish you good luck on the job and I hope it works for you.
 

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Originally posted by Caveman
The whole point of the bootcamps and stuff like that is to not be affraid of personal rejection. Actually be rejected and being able to move on after that. So this job is not gonna help you with that.

But sure, there are some advantages to talking to total strangers. You'll probably learn to smalltalk and overcome initial shyness. The key here is though, after your experiences on the job, can you cold approach a girl without trying to offer her something business-like?

Either way, I wish you good luck on the job and I hope it works for you.
I just got home from work.. Approached random people and after I took this girl to the seminar, she had to go home via train.

I offered her a ride. But since the train was crowded I offered to drive her on the superhighway w/c was no prob, I was meeting some1 there tonight anyway.

So I get her # (Not for business purpose) I asked her if she wanted to go out sometime, I'd pick her up at work (she works at a call center)

She agreed and gave me her # and thanked me.

I could get used to this! :D

I reckon some girls may not be interested in the business at all; sometimes they just wanna ride with me and hang out. Well, that's just my observation.. IDK.. :p
 

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Buy me a beamer and ship it to Canada. Then we'll talk.
 
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