i get numbers, i call, but i have nothing to say

[sh0kka]

does anyone else have this problem? i have no trouble getting girls numbers, or getting them attracted to me, but i know one thing, that is if you call a girl, small-talk and the ability to hold a conversation is important, however, i have trouble doing that over the phone, in person its easy, but over the phone its hard.

 

[Kev07]

ask what shes doing elaborate on it, see if she asks what you're doing give simple answers not too much detail, you should be talking about what shes doing, etc

or relay a funny story. or a good story

 

[Heyjose25points]

I also have this same problem. When its person to person, its much easier to hold a conversation but when its over the phone its much harder. I think the reason why its harder is because u don't have that non-verbal communication. In a one on one convo, u can see their body language, face expression. But with a phone convo, u can only get the verbal feedback.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Here's more of the crap of DJ wannabees so game on getting a number and not knowing what to do with it, it's a waste of effort. If you suck at phone conversation why not just get the date with her while you're talking to her instead of getting a phone number which you can't use?

 

[chronic99uk]

Surely the first call you make shouldnt be a massive convo?
If you get numbers, just mention in convo something about the night in question, maybe what food she likes if your taking her out ot dinner, or if she would like to go to a quiet bar.

The the next phone call after that will include some of the many things you listened to and took in about her week, or life etc etc?

Thats the way i do it.
Maybe talk about yourself.?