"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I gained 4 lbs of muscle in 10 days so far

MetalFortress

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Using my power clean, jerk and squat routine. Just weighed myself today, up from 216 to 220. I know it's muscle too. My waistline is the same, if not a tiny bit slimmer. My shoulders are much harder, my arms are bigger, my quads are bigger too, my traps are higher, and my back is harder. This is pretty good for my first time trying to gain weight using weightlifting.

I'll keep reporting how this goes, and see if I can keep up the pace for 6-8 weeks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I hear what you're saying IronG. You're feeling stronger and looking bigger and even leaner.

But, I don't think it's physiologically possible to gain four pounds of muscle in 10 days.
 

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Originally posted by prosemont
I hear what you're saying IronG. You're feeling stronger and looking bigger and even leaner.

But, I don't think it's physiologically possible to gain four pounds of muscle in 10 days.
Sure it is. Lift hard, eat heavy. A guy at DragonDoor gained 30 lbs in 6 weeks using a 20-rep squat 3 days a week routine, and his report was that it was almost all muscle (waistline was the same size). No roids either, just a ton of good calories. He drank at least a half gallon of milk a day. Some choose to drink a gallon a day on this routine (nicknamed "milk squats")

Phantasmal, I lost a tad bit over the summer but not that much. My arms are as big as they were when I was only doing chins and dips, and my traps and shoulders are bigger and harder than ever. I'm going to add a chest workout to the mix today, probably DB bench press.

BTW, if you want to ask the 20-rep squat guy about his routine, he is "Monty H Singer, RKC" on the DragonDoor.com forum.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Word, congrats on the success so far!

Anthony Ellis (the dude from www.skinnyguy.net) claims to have gained 35 pounds of muscle in 12 weeks without roids so I believe you.
 

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Oops, I almost forgot my supps

GNC 100% Whey (chocolate)
Proteincustomizer blend (65% dextrose. 25% egg protein, 5% glutamine, 5% BCAA)
Creatine Monohydrate

After a workout I mix 30 grams of the GNC, 60 grams of Proteincustomizer's blend and 5g of creatine into half a quart of milk. After an especially big workout I buy a quart of 2% and down it, and THEN have my above shake mix too.
 

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Your weight fluxuates throughout the day so if you aren't weighing yourself at exactly the same times then there will be a difference.

I fluxuate about 3 pounds everyday on my scale.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hey guys,
u really can get big without steroids ..
i gained 27 lbs in 2 months (from 140 post operation weight) to 167 .. completely natural, i had to eat to eat like crazy though, and i didn't even take a supplement coz i'm allergic to milk and soy protein ..
 

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salthepal, I agree that you can get big that fast naturally (congrats btw), but where I have my doubts is when someone ignorantly claims it all to be muscle. Especially when they're taking creatine...
 

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Originally posted by Shiftkey
salthepal, I agree that you can get big that fast naturally (congrats btw), but where I have my doubts is when someone ignorantly claims it all to be muscle. Especially when they're taking creatine...
Since you can't read, I'll explain it again: I only take it ON WORKOUT DAYS, which means I have only taken 5 grams on those days, for 6 days in over 2 weeks. It's not like I'm loading it.
 

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You may look better and weigh more but it's not all muscle...it doesn't matter who you are....max gains muscle wise are about 1/2 lb a week and 1 lb a week if you are a genetic freak. Even so, congrats on the gains.
 

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Originally posted by Supaman
You may look better and weigh more but it's not all muscle...it doesn't matter who you are....max gains muscle wise are about 1/2 lb a week and 1 lb a week if you are a genetic freak. Even so, congrats on the gains.
1/2-1 pound a week? Sounds like psuedo-science to me. Give me proof of that, because it's been proven false before.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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