"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i found out where the hot intelligent chicks hide!

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ok... i dont know if you guys already knew this or whatever. i just wanted to share my find.

so i was at the mall today with my 3 year old sis. she wanted to go to the bookstore to see some stickers (she loves stickers, lol)

anyway, on there, i see dozens of hot girls! im not exaggerating. and they seemed knowledgable and cool alot seemed fashionable and outgoing too.

i did some small talk with a couple of them. that's it.. anyway, i guess i have alot of exploring to do.

anyone else know of good places to find girls? except for bars/clubs which are evident. lol.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dude... bookstores are a goldmine. especially if they have a coffee shop in them
 
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What fukkin world/realm/dimension do you live in?

I have seen like ONE hot chick in my life at a bookstore.

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Go to the Chapters on St. Catherines in downtown..... and OPEN your eyes instead of staring at that Playboy
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Libraries at colleges are really good too. I had never been to one up until recently, and regret not going more in the past.
 
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Dude...I totally just got this chicks number at a bookstore like a half hour ago. It is definitely the place to go.
 
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^ lol yea. like who woulda known? i mean, it would be like the last place i'd check for girls.
 
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