"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i forgot a girls name...

xiola

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and now we are going out to party tom. any ideas on how I can find out what her name is without looking bad? very good chance Ill have to introduce her to some people

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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Originally posted by xiola
and now we are going out to party tom. any ideas on how I can find out what her name is without looking bad? very good chance Ill have to introduce her to some people

b
That's what you want, to introduce her to people. See someone you know who you want to introduce her to and point him/her out to the girl. Then walk over there with her and be like "hey I want to introduce you to so-and-so" (say this to the girl who's name you don't know). Naturally she'll automatically say her name and shake hands or whatever and you can pick it up from there.
 

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ya, ive done **** like that before. "hey, this is a friend of mine...meet chris"

then the girl will jump in to introduce herself.

i was wanting to do something different though, lol
 

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Tell her it's one of those parties where everyone wears one of those "Hi, my name is _____" stickers. Then when u get there go: "whoops, I guess it's not a sticker party".

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mention that people used to call you "bob" at school or some crap like that then say "hmm, did you ever have a nic name at school?" if she says "yes" ask her what she prefers to be called now, if she says "no" ask her if she likes her name and does she know the meaning behind it, or if she could make up a new name what would it be?

there's loads of things you could try.

Introduction routine would be easier tho.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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Originally posted by xiola
ya, ive done **** like that before. "hey, this is a friend of mine...meet chris"

then the girl will jump in to introduce herself.

i was wanting to do something different though, lol
I didn't realize you wanted to make a game out of this :crackup:
 

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you could call a buddy of yours explain it to him and he can come over and introduce himself then bail
 

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Her name is Molva!...:D

Have you seen that Seinfield episode where Jerry forgets the womans name?
I guess that does happen in real life...:crackup:
 
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