"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i forgot a girls name...

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and now we are going out to party tom. any ideas on how I can find out what her name is without looking bad? very good chance Ill have to introduce her to some people

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by xiola
and now we are going out to party tom. any ideas on how I can find out what her name is without looking bad? very good chance Ill have to introduce her to some people

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That's what you want, to introduce her to people. See someone you know who you want to introduce her to and point him/her out to the girl. Then walk over there with her and be like "hey I want to introduce you to so-and-so" (say this to the girl who's name you don't know). Naturally she'll automatically say her name and shake hands or whatever and you can pick it up from there.
 

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ya, ive done **** like that before. "hey, this is a friend of mine...meet chris"

then the girl will jump in to introduce herself.

i was wanting to do something different though, lol
 

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Tell her it's one of those parties where everyone wears one of those "Hi, my name is _____" stickers. Then when u get there go: "whoops, I guess it's not a sticker party".

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mention that people used to call you "bob" at school or some crap like that then say "hmm, did you ever have a nic name at school?" if she says "yes" ask her what she prefers to be called now, if she says "no" ask her if she likes her name and does she know the meaning behind it, or if she could make up a new name what would it be?

there's loads of things you could try.

Introduction routine would be easier tho.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by xiola
ya, ive done **** like that before. "hey, this is a friend of mine...meet chris"

then the girl will jump in to introduce herself.

i was wanting to do something different though, lol
I didn't realize you wanted to make a game out of this :crackup:
 

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you could call a buddy of yours explain it to him and he can come over and introduce himself then bail
 

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Her name is Molva!...:D

Have you seen that Seinfield episode where Jerry forgets the womans name?
I guess that does happen in real life...:crackup:
 
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