"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I fked up

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I've been seeing this girl for around 3 months (also known her from before through social circle).
She hinted before about us not seeing anyone but never asked to be exclusive.

I got very drunk few days ago to the point I don't even remember asking this but she told me I asked her to be exclusive (never done this before, and would never if I wasn't so wasted). She said yes, but my gut is telling me I fcked up.

Any advices how to salvage this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Spaz said:
Carry on like nothing happened.
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I second that. also give her more space then usual in the up coming weeks, less interactions and more gaps between meetings, basically fade away any bf vibes.
 
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AbaGanov said:
I second that. also give her more space then usual in the up coming weeks, less interactions and more gaps between meetings, basically fade away any bf vibes.
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Yea I'm doing that right now. Last time I spoke to her I told her that I'm free on wendesday or thursday but that we'll talk before. Should I wait for her to contact me first?
 
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Do what women do when they say "I love you" during a weak moment when they didn't mean it. Carry on with business as usual.

You can also tell her in a funny/teasing way that she must have concocted this story and its all wishful thinking.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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