"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I fked up

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I've been seeing this girl for around 3 months (also known her from before through social circle).
She hinted before about us not seeing anyone but never asked to be exclusive.

I got very drunk few days ago to the point I don't even remember asking this but she told me I asked her to be exclusive (never done this before, and would never if I wasn't so wasted). She said yes, but my gut is telling me I fcked up.

Any advices how to salvage this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Spaz said:
Carry on like nothing happened.
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I second that. also give her more space then usual in the up coming weeks, less interactions and more gaps between meetings, basically fade away any bf vibes.
 
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AbaGanov said:
I second that. also give her more space then usual in the up coming weeks, less interactions and more gaps between meetings, basically fade away any bf vibes.
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Yea I'm doing that right now. Last time I spoke to her I told her that I'm free on wendesday or thursday but that we'll talk before. Should I wait for her to contact me first?
 
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Do what women do when they say "I love you" during a weak moment when they didn't mean it. Carry on with business as usual.

You can also tell her in a funny/teasing way that she must have concocted this story and its all wishful thinking.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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