"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I find I get bored of relationships/girls quickly

SpazzAttackk

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I have yet to find a girl whos kept me interested for over a month. When I first start an LTR, I have the butterflies (SHUT UP BURROUGHS). A week passes, they subside. 2 weeks pass I start losing interest and by the first month its like everything is lost. Kino, sex, making out. It all feels the same after awhile.

Im starting to wonder if its my fault or the girls. Anyone else have this issue? Makes me wonder if theres actually a woman out there who can hold my interest. I do plan on settling down later on in life, start a family etc (Im talking much much later) But Im concerned I just.. wont give a ****, you know? Dont call me a blue piller for wanting a family later on in life. I dont plan on being lonely till the day I die. TBH any man over the age of 45 who still goes for one nights stands is living in the fantasy world.

Fvck.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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zinc4

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i have the same issues....i think after a while (in my situation) i will eventually just have to accept the sexual boredom and settle on one gal who i think is the best person
 

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Yep me too.

Bottom line is modern women have no game. Most of them have weak personalities and aren't really "about anything".

It takes depth to hold interest. Think of music... pop vs. something deep. Pop music is easy to love right away.. but then it gets stale very fast. Deeper music never loses its appeal totally.

Modern women don't know how to be woman. They grew up with feminism so they never felt it was their job to learn how to seduce and please men with their personalities. They believe its all about looking good, smelling good and wearing expensive clothes. Smoke and mirrors with nothing behind it. No depth. No game. No value.

Yes.. women need "game" too. Who would of thought? :crackup: :crackup:

So just use them as sex toys and focus the rest of your time on your personal goals. At least that's what I've decided to do. If you want kids, find someone with the best genes and the least BPD to do it with.
 

TheStig

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PlayHer Man said:
Yep me too.

Bottom line is modern women have no game. Most of them have weak personalities and aren't really "about anything".

It takes depth to hold interest. Think of music... pop vs. something deep. Pop music is easy to love right away.. but then it gets stale very fast. Deeper music never loses its appeal totally.

Modern women don't know how to be woman. They grew up with feminism so they never felt it was their job to learn how to seduce and please men with their personalities. They believe its all about looking good, smelling good and wearing expensive clothes. Smoke and mirrors with nothing behind it. No depth. No game. No value.

Yes.. women need "game" too. Who would of thought? :crackup: :crackup:

So just use them as sex toys and focus the rest of your time on your personal goals. At least that's what I've decided to do. If you want kids, find someone with the best genes and the least BPD to do it with.
This x10000000. repped
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yeah, I don't understand how some guys can go through with some of their constantly boring LTRs. Considering many of these girls only have yes or no answers to everything asked of them and they can't look anyone in the eye. They may have a heart attack if they speak a full sentence.

Then there's the guys (fags) who are just friends with girls. Guys should be your friends because they at least have interesting things to say some of the time. You can go on autopilot with girls conversations and nothing will be missed.
 
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