"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I find I get bored of relationships/girls quickly

SpazzAttackk

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I have yet to find a girl whos kept me interested for over a month. When I first start an LTR, I have the butterflies (SHUT UP BURROUGHS). A week passes, they subside. 2 weeks pass I start losing interest and by the first month its like everything is lost. Kino, sex, making out. It all feels the same after awhile.

Im starting to wonder if its my fault or the girls. Anyone else have this issue? Makes me wonder if theres actually a woman out there who can hold my interest. I do plan on settling down later on in life, start a family etc (Im talking much much later) But Im concerned I just.. wont give a ****, you know? Dont call me a blue piller for wanting a family later on in life. I dont plan on being lonely till the day I die. TBH any man over the age of 45 who still goes for one nights stands is living in the fantasy world.

Fvck.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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zinc4

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i have the same issues....i think after a while (in my situation) i will eventually just have to accept the sexual boredom and settle on one gal who i think is the best person
 

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Yep me too.

Bottom line is modern women have no game. Most of them have weak personalities and aren't really "about anything".

It takes depth to hold interest. Think of music... pop vs. something deep. Pop music is easy to love right away.. but then it gets stale very fast. Deeper music never loses its appeal totally.

Modern women don't know how to be woman. They grew up with feminism so they never felt it was their job to learn how to seduce and please men with their personalities. They believe its all about looking good, smelling good and wearing expensive clothes. Smoke and mirrors with nothing behind it. No depth. No game. No value.

Yes.. women need "game" too. Who would of thought? :crackup: :crackup:

So just use them as sex toys and focus the rest of your time on your personal goals. At least that's what I've decided to do. If you want kids, find someone with the best genes and the least BPD to do it with.
 

TheStig

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PlayHer Man said:
Yep me too.

Bottom line is modern women have no game. Most of them have weak personalities and aren't really "about anything".

It takes depth to hold interest. Think of music... pop vs. something deep. Pop music is easy to love right away.. but then it gets stale very fast. Deeper music never loses its appeal totally.

Modern women don't know how to be woman. They grew up with feminism so they never felt it was their job to learn how to seduce and please men with their personalities. They believe its all about looking good, smelling good and wearing expensive clothes. Smoke and mirrors with nothing behind it. No depth. No game. No value.

Yes.. women need "game" too. Who would of thought? :crackup: :crackup:

So just use them as sex toys and focus the rest of your time on your personal goals. At least that's what I've decided to do. If you want kids, find someone with the best genes and the least BPD to do it with.
This x10000000. repped
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah, I don't understand how some guys can go through with some of their constantly boring LTRs. Considering many of these girls only have yes or no answers to everything asked of them and they can't look anyone in the eye. They may have a heart attack if they speak a full sentence.

Then there's the guys (fags) who are just friends with girls. Guys should be your friends because they at least have interesting things to say some of the time. You can go on autopilot with girls conversations and nothing will be missed.
 
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