"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I finally got the message of this web-site

setlur55

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This will be my last post for a while. This web-site and forum have been great for me to finally get my groove back towards women. Read the posts and learn but ultimately you need to go out there and make the conscious decision to change your present situation.

Let women into your life and do not focus on negative thoughts you will not always be successful but do your best! You can only learn what works for you by paractising in the real life. You need to use the tips that work best for you and become the person you are. Just do your best! You will get better and ultimately be successful!

Thanks for all DJs for helping me realise this it has only been a week now and I notice the difference and with every day that goes by I get closer to the day where I will find the perfect partner!

Take care and sarge on!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So pimp its scary

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Good to hear... some people need less of a push than others.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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** sniff ** Another one is leaving the nest.... :D
 

nishbuk

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
** sniff ** Another one is leaving the nest.... :D
Hehe. He'll be back, as we all are in the interim of our relationships. :p
It's funny how when we are IN the relationship, we probably need to review this site the most.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by nishbuk
...It's funny how when we are IN the relationship, we probably need to review this site the most.
You can say that again. Guys don't understand that DJism shouldn't stop just because you are in a relationship, it's a lifestyle.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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