"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I finally got the message of this web-site

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This will be my last post for a while. This web-site and forum have been great for me to finally get my groove back towards women. Read the posts and learn but ultimately you need to go out there and make the conscious decision to change your present situation.

Let women into your life and do not focus on negative thoughts you will not always be successful but do your best! You can only learn what works for you by paractising in the real life. You need to use the tips that work best for you and become the person you are. Just do your best! You will get better and ultimately be successful!

Thanks for all DJs for helping me realise this it has only been a week now and I notice the difference and with every day that goes by I get closer to the day where I will find the perfect partner!

Take care and sarge on!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Good to hear... some people need less of a push than others.
 
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** sniff ** Another one is leaving the nest.... :D
 
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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
** sniff ** Another one is leaving the nest.... :D
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Hehe. He'll be back, as we all are in the interim of our relationships. :p
It's funny how when we are IN the relationship, we probably need to review this site the most.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by nishbuk
...It's funny how when we are IN the relationship, we probably need to review this site the most.
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You can say that again. Guys don't understand that DJism shouldn't stop just because you are in a relationship, it's a lifestyle.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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