"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I finally got the message of this web-site

setlur55

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This will be my last post for a while. This web-site and forum have been great for me to finally get my groove back towards women. Read the posts and learn but ultimately you need to go out there and make the conscious decision to change your present situation.

Let women into your life and do not focus on negative thoughts you will not always be successful but do your best! You can only learn what works for you by paractising in the real life. You need to use the tips that work best for you and become the person you are. Just do your best! You will get better and ultimately be successful!

Thanks for all DJs for helping me realise this it has only been a week now and I notice the difference and with every day that goes by I get closer to the day where I will find the perfect partner!

Take care and sarge on!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So pimp its scary

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Good to hear... some people need less of a push than others.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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** sniff ** Another one is leaving the nest.... :D
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
** sniff ** Another one is leaving the nest.... :D
Hehe. He'll be back, as we all are in the interim of our relationships. :p
It's funny how when we are IN the relationship, we probably need to review this site the most.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by nishbuk
...It's funny how when we are IN the relationship, we probably need to review this site the most.
You can say that again. Guys don't understand that DJism shouldn't stop just because you are in a relationship, it's a lifestyle.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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