"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I finally got the message of this web-site

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This will be my last post for a while. This web-site and forum have been great for me to finally get my groove back towards women. Read the posts and learn but ultimately you need to go out there and make the conscious decision to change your present situation.

Let women into your life and do not focus on negative thoughts you will not always be successful but do your best! You can only learn what works for you by paractising in the real life. You need to use the tips that work best for you and become the person you are. Just do your best! You will get better and ultimately be successful!

Thanks for all DJs for helping me realise this it has only been a week now and I notice the difference and with every day that goes by I get closer to the day where I will find the perfect partner!

Take care and sarge on!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Good to hear... some people need less of a push than others.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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** sniff ** Another one is leaving the nest.... :D
 
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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
** sniff ** Another one is leaving the nest.... :D
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Hehe. He'll be back, as we all are in the interim of our relationships. :p
It's funny how when we are IN the relationship, we probably need to review this site the most.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by nishbuk
...It's funny how when we are IN the relationship, we probably need to review this site the most.
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You can say that again. Guys don't understand that DJism shouldn't stop just because you are in a relationship, it's a lifestyle.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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