"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I Finally Get It

OneArmDeeJay

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I finally get it.

First I would like to say Thank You to all those who are true DJs out there that truly contribute to this site. Thank You to those that share experiences, tips, theories, and your two cents on situations and questions even those redundant AFC questions.

I now have more, and just the confidence, to approach and talk to women. This site has helped me get dates, to get a hot girlfriend, maintain the relationship and when I had to cut her lose I wasn’t afraid to and had no regrets afterwards. And since then I have met many women and its only have been success.

I learned that this site is just to only help you find you and to be truly yourself around women. I didn’t really get it at first. I thought this site provides tactics for you to memorize and C & F lines to use in different situation that might just happen. But as time went on, things were getting frustrating, especially when I was trying to memorize all the things to say and I couldn’t remember them when I was around them. And as I read different post about “what to do when she says or she does this”…. I learn it wasn’t about memorizing lines so when that so called right situation arises or your trying to create it, to use them. It was just examples. That’s all. It was just examples for me to understand what attracts women. This site is just to improve you, as a person, to work on your inner game, not to act like someone your not. And as soon as I got that, the successes rate just keeps climbing up. So Thank You Sosuave!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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spider_007

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Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
This site is just to improve you, as a person, to work on your inner game, not to act like someone your not.
so many people on here don't get this, At least somebody has.;)
 

Inc. ®

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Bingo. Post of the Century! :up:

Too many people here think the DJ Bible is the answer. :rolleyes:
 

HereToImprove

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Cheers! Bravo for Brother OneArmDeeJay, for he has seen the light.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
...I learn it wasn’t about memorizing lines so when that so called right situation arises or your trying to create it, to use them. It was just examples. That’s all. It was just examples for me to understand what attracts women. This site is just to improve you, as a person, to work on your inner game, not to act like someone your not...
And there is the key to becoming a DJ. :up:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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OneArmDeeJay

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Thanks guys :) To bad not everyone can see this site for what it really is, because if that was the case, we wouldn't still have the same o' AFC post. But maybe one day that won’t be the case. Hopefully…
 

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In the 5 weeks I have known this site it has really completely changed my life and opened my eyes. I was sleepwalking in connection with women. Now I have added the excitement of letting women in my life and it is looking good! But the journey has still just only begun for me!
 
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