"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I Finally Get It

OneArmDeeJay

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I finally get it.

First I would like to say Thank You to all those who are true DJs out there that truly contribute to this site. Thank You to those that share experiences, tips, theories, and your two cents on situations and questions even those redundant AFC questions.

I now have more, and just the confidence, to approach and talk to women. This site has helped me get dates, to get a hot girlfriend, maintain the relationship and when I had to cut her lose I wasn’t afraid to and had no regrets afterwards. And since then I have met many women and its only have been success.

I learned that this site is just to only help you find you and to be truly yourself around women. I didn’t really get it at first. I thought this site provides tactics for you to memorize and C & F lines to use in different situation that might just happen. But as time went on, things were getting frustrating, especially when I was trying to memorize all the things to say and I couldn’t remember them when I was around them. And as I read different post about “what to do when she says or she does this”…. I learn it wasn’t about memorizing lines so when that so called right situation arises or your trying to create it, to use them. It was just examples. That’s all. It was just examples for me to understand what attracts women. This site is just to improve you, as a person, to work on your inner game, not to act like someone your not. And as soon as I got that, the successes rate just keeps climbing up. So Thank You Sosuave!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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spider_007

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Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
This site is just to improve you, as a person, to work on your inner game, not to act like someone your not.
so many people on here don't get this, At least somebody has.;)
 

Inc. ®

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Bingo. Post of the Century! :up:

Too many people here think the DJ Bible is the answer. :rolleyes:
 

HereToImprove

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Cheers! Bravo for Brother OneArmDeeJay, for he has seen the light.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
...I learn it wasn’t about memorizing lines so when that so called right situation arises or your trying to create it, to use them. It was just examples. That’s all. It was just examples for me to understand what attracts women. This site is just to improve you, as a person, to work on your inner game, not to act like someone your not...
And there is the key to becoming a DJ. :up:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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OneArmDeeJay

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Thanks guys :) To bad not everyone can see this site for what it really is, because if that was the case, we wouldn't still have the same o' AFC post. But maybe one day that won’t be the case. Hopefully…
 

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In the 5 weeks I have known this site it has really completely changed my life and opened my eyes. I was sleepwalking in connection with women. Now I have added the excitement of letting women in my life and it is looking good! But the journey has still just only begun for me!
 
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