"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I finally get it

tom121

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After doing some grocery shopping with my sister, she went off to pick up her photos from somewhere. As I was sitting there, I see so many couples, I mean ugly dude + a 10 chick. I just realized, WHAT THE ****, how does he do it?

tomorrow I am going to be approaching hot girls starting 7:30 in the morning on the bus ride to school, then I'll continue at school and on the way home

I am tired of being the lonely dude, I deserve myself a hot chick too
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tyrone Biggums

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Another Alternative

Doesn't your sister have friends you can meet and get to know?
 

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as for me i am at the point of quitting cause all the girls i talk to right now i just cant seem to get it passed talking to each other. An i am still scared to do cold apporachs.

Whateva you do don't end up like me. I just read some guys LAy report and i just feel bad that it could have been me doing something similar. :(
 

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Re: Another Alternative

Originally posted by Tyrone Biggums
Doesn't your sister have friends you can meet and get to know?
no, she is 6 years older than me, although she does have a lot of hot female friends in her age
 
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