The girls don't like the shirt. They like the guy who is wearing it. The clothes don't make the guy. The guy makes the clothes.realsmoothie said:DAMN that is one ugly shirt!
Sorry, LOL! The girls obviously like it!
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The girls don't like the shirt. They like the guy who is wearing it. The clothes don't make the guy. The guy makes the clothes.realsmoothie said:DAMN that is one ugly shirt!
Sorry, LOL! The girls obviously like it!
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I know I know, it's a joke!Mayfly said:The girls don't like the shirt. They like the guy who is wearing it. The clothes don't make the guy. The guy makes the clothes.![]()
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dumb ass.sparky0000 said:dude, it was going good until the part about her wearing a sport team's jersey :crackup: . things really have gone to hell in america. girls can't be considered "hot" when they wear such things. she should have heels on. probably a nice skirt. makeup. things like that. it is what god intended.
seriously, what type of girl decides to go out in public with such a thing on? mmm...come to think of it...most american girls are built like linebackers these days. ok, now it is starting to make some sense.
Dude...ur C&F is getting better and better.Me: Would you like to take a picture with your cell phone so you can look at me for a little bit longer?
HB7.5: (Blushing) I'm sorry. You look pretty good.
Me: Well thanks. I gotta get back to my date, but what is ur name?
HB7.5: blah blah
Jesus Christ man! Unbelievable!I had to go fill up the pitcher for the game, so I walked over to the keg and on my way another girl HB8 pulled me by my tie and started making out with me. I hope my date wasn't watching cause we were kissing for at least two minutes.
Me: If you are going to kiss me like that, put your number in my phone
HB8: You are a really good kisser (taking my phone)