"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I Finally Didn't Mess This Up!!!
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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I know I know, it's a joke!Mayfly said:The girls don't like the shirt. They like the guy who is wearing it. The clothes don't make the guy. The guy makes the clothes.
Heyjose25points
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Mayfly, your post on that night was great, especially the HB8. Upcoming tonight and Saturday is when i want to party. What's some good advice during apartment parties? I really want to improve my night game, as I don't go out as much as I use to plus I keep getting the feeling that my convos went chicks need to be more on the higher energy level,(C&F, etc.) but its def not easy for me.
First of all, when you get there, look like you own the place man. Talk to a lot of people. Start with the guys first, build a rapport. Slowly work your way to the girls. C & F works well at parties. If you get to the stage of hooking up, lead them to the brink and then pull away. They will pull you right to them.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
So last night at my semi-formal for my Cross Country team, I invited a girl I met last year to go with me at 6 PM, and the party started at 9:30 PM. She is a HB6.5. I pregamed with her in my room with her, felt like we never left off from the previous time we were talking. We walked over and I used some good kino, hand on the back and that business. We got to the party and I just went nuts, shaking every one's hand like I usually do, typical Alpha Male stuff.
We got downstairs and I got a bunch of looks from random girls, some of which had dates. I was looking real real fresh. The music was really good so I just started to get it in dancing. :woo:
I took some shots, and went over to fill my cup from the keg and a girl (HB7.5) was giving me some real nice eye contact.
Me: Would you like to take a picture with your cell phone so you can look at me for a little bit longer?
HB7.5: (Blushing) I'm sorry. You look pretty good.
Me: Well thanks. I gotta get back to my date, but what is ur name?
HB7.5: blah blah
After a while, my date and I got closer, me putting my arm around the small of her back. We started playing some flip cup and I gave her a small kiss. She obviously liked it, kissed me back.
I had to go fill up the pitcher for the game, so I walked over to the keg and on my way another girl HB8 pulled me by my tie and started making out with me. I hope my date wasn't watching cause we were kissing for at least two minutes.
Me: If you are going to kiss me like that, put your number in my phone
HB8: You are a really good kisser (taking my phone)
Fast forward to later in the night when we were playing beer pong, my date and I. I left her for a second, and then HB8 grabbed my tie again and we kissed for another good bit. I went directly from her back to my date and gave her a kiss.
That is pretty much the story of the night, I didn't mess around with either girl that night since after I walked my date back to her place, she was awfully drunk, I passed out in the house and the other girl was gone. I was carried back to my place by two guys. Let's see if tonight will be as good!
We got downstairs and I got a bunch of looks from random girls, some of which had dates. I was looking real real fresh. The music was really good so I just started to get it in dancing. :woo:
I took some shots, and went over to fill my cup from the keg and a girl (HB7.5) was giving me some real nice eye contact.
Me: Would you like to take a picture with your cell phone so you can look at me for a little bit longer?
HB7.5: (Blushing) I'm sorry. You look pretty good.
Me: Well thanks. I gotta get back to my date, but what is ur name?
HB7.5: blah blah
After a while, my date and I got closer, me putting my arm around the small of her back. We started playing some flip cup and I gave her a small kiss. She obviously liked it, kissed me back.
I had to go fill up the pitcher for the game, so I walked over to the keg and on my way another girl HB8 pulled me by my tie and started making out with me. I hope my date wasn't watching cause we were kissing for at least two minutes.
Me: If you are going to kiss me like that, put your number in my phone
HB8: You are a really good kisser (taking my phone)
Fast forward to later in the night when we were playing beer pong, my date and I. I left her for a second, and then HB8 grabbed my tie again and we kissed for another good bit. I went directly from her back to my date and gave her a kiss.
That is pretty much the story of the night, I didn't mess around with either girl that night since after I walked my date back to her place, she was awfully drunk, I passed out in the house and the other girl was gone. I was carried back to my place by two guys. Let's see if tonight will be as good!
Heyjose25points
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Dude...ur C&F is getting better and better.
Jesus Christ man! Unbelievable!
You should make a journal dude...this is def inspiring me to succeed with night game!
This Is Now My Journal...nice Title Huh
So last night I invited the girl who pulled my tie to kiss me at the semi-formal to pregame with me. She came over with her friend, who I know, and we had a pretty good time. I kept them laughing, had a beer while the girl from last night had a mixed drink. I played one of my rap songs which has very sexual lyrics and the girl from last night said:
Last Night Girl (LNG): You know these are some pretty enticing lyrics
Me: Wanna know something funny though?
LNG: What?
Me: I don't lie in my lyrics (wink)
LNG: Veryy interesting
We chilled for a while and then before we went out to a party that coincidentally we both knew of, I made a pretty sick mixed drink. Monster Energy Drink with 6 shots of Vodka in it.
So we entered the party and I knew I felt like I didn't belong. I was looking real fresh in a button up and stone washed ripped pants. But, the party was full of gothic folk and punk rockers. I had some kino with LNG, but nothing real serious, she knew everyone at the party so I didn't want to follow her around. I killed a couple beers and then told her I was leaving. I just rolled out of there. So I walked back and called my ex g/f, just to see what was up with her.
She was just hanging out in her room, so I went over there. We chilled for a bit, doing nothing. She has had a history of toying around with me and using me (what else is new with ex g/fs), so when the girl from a couple nights ago at the Wednesday party called, I took that opportunity. I said I had to leave and walked out, met up with the girl from Wednesday and went back to my spot.
We chilled for a while, seeing how many common friends we had on facebook, talked about fashion and whatever. Then she was like:
Wednesday Night Girl (WNG): When are you going to tell me to shut up and have me do what girls do?
Me: What?
WNG: I am talking too much
Me: No, you're fine. My ears haven't started bleeding yet. By the way, what do girls do?
WNG: You know...(kissing me)
I took her to the brink and then backed off. She couldn't take it any more so she took my hand and led me to my bed. Things went down that are not PG-13, so I shall not post. She wasn't that great I must say.
So last night I invited the girl who pulled my tie to kiss me at the semi-formal to pregame with me. She came over with her friend, who I know, and we had a pretty good time. I kept them laughing, had a beer while the girl from last night had a mixed drink. I played one of my rap songs which has very sexual lyrics and the girl from last night said:
Last Night Girl (LNG): You know these are some pretty enticing lyrics
Me: Wanna know something funny though?
LNG: What?
Me: I don't lie in my lyrics (wink)
LNG: Veryy interesting
We chilled for a while and then before we went out to a party that coincidentally we both knew of, I made a pretty sick mixed drink. Monster Energy Drink with 6 shots of Vodka in it.
So we entered the party and I knew I felt like I didn't belong. I was looking real fresh in a button up and stone washed ripped pants. But, the party was full of gothic folk and punk rockers. I had some kino with LNG, but nothing real serious, she knew everyone at the party so I didn't want to follow her around. I killed a couple beers and then told her I was leaving. I just rolled out of there. So I walked back and called my ex g/f, just to see what was up with her.
She was just hanging out in her room, so I went over there. We chilled for a bit, doing nothing. She has had a history of toying around with me and using me (what else is new with ex g/fs), so when the girl from a couple nights ago at the Wednesday party called, I took that opportunity. I said I had to leave and walked out, met up with the girl from Wednesday and went back to my spot.
We chilled for a while, seeing how many common friends we had on facebook, talked about fashion and whatever. Then she was like:
Wednesday Night Girl (WNG): When are you going to tell me to shut up and have me do what girls do?
Me: What?
WNG: I am talking too much
Me: No, you're fine. My ears haven't started bleeding yet. By the way, what do girls do?
WNG: You know...(kissing me)
I took her to the brink and then backed off. She couldn't take it any more so she took my hand and led me to my bed. Things went down that are not PG-13, so I shall not post. She wasn't that great I must say.