"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I finally did it with ease (talking to women that is)

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opentoadvice

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Man do i feel great, for the first time i talked to women with ease, all thanks to my own self determination and the "nouning" tip given by someone (i forgot whom they were) on this site. It was perfect I had a conversation with this girl and just asked her questions while she rambled on about herself. She seemed to enjoy it. So all I need to do now is try to talk to a chick while bringing sexual innuendos, i.e. try to f*** her. So yea its going great. I just figured I'd let everyone know.

thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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silverwex is the man you need to thank for his insight on 'nouning'.

For those of you who would like to learn about 'nouning', the post can be reached here.
 
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mikel

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Try listening and having a little more fun when you talk to her instead of just letting her ramble on.
 
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