"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I finally did it with ease (talking to women that is)

opentoadvice

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Man do i feel great, for the first time i talked to women with ease, all thanks to my own self determination and the "nouning" tip given by someone (i forgot whom they were) on this site. It was perfect I had a conversation with this girl and just asked her questions while she rambled on about herself. She seemed to enjoy it. So all I need to do now is try to talk to a chick while bringing sexual innuendos, i.e. try to f*** her. So yea its going great. I just figured I'd let everyone know.

thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Zero0ne

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silverwex is the man you need to thank for his insight on 'nouning'.

For those of you who would like to learn about 'nouning', the post can be reached here.
 

mikel

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Try listening and having a little more fun when you talk to her instead of just letting her ramble on.
 
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