"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I finally did it... I became asexual !

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well over the last few days I have spent countless hours in deep meditation and thought and have finally made the transition to asexuality. I no longer look at women lustfully and get complete satisfaction from Pornography only.

I have cut out all women in my life. If I must talk to them, I talk to them minimally and make no effort to prolong the conversation any longer than need be. They have no use in the world except to suck the life out of us strong men and to make babies. I realize now why so many civilizations have dealt with them in the way that they have. They are mischevous to the utmost. Even Ghangus Khan, the most fearsome warrior in history was eventually killed by a woman that ensnared him with lust.

I am so happy to be free of the bondage of lust and can now focus on enjoyment of other things in life knowing that I will never be with another woman free's you like no other.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What's her name? It's always a girl mixed up in these stories somewhere.
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Well, whoever she is, he got back at her good! Ha ha!








Life is so empty.
 
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judoguy said:
well over the last few days I have spent countless hours in deep meditation and thought and have finally made the transition to asexuality. I no longer look at women lustfully and get complete satisfaction from Pornography only.

I have cut out all women in my life. If I must talk to them, I talk to them minimally and make no effort to prolong the conversation any longer than need be. They have no use in the world except to suck the life out of us strong men and to make babies. I realize now why so many civilizations have dealt with them in the way that they have. They are mischevous to the utmost. Even Ghangus Khan, the most fearsome warrior in history was eventually killed by a woman that ensnared him with lust.

I am so happy to be free of the bondage of lust and can now focus on enjoyment of other things in life knowing that I will never be with another woman free's you like no other.
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great, next you are going to wake up when you are 48 years old and realize you were wrong and wasted your life. Then, you will go shoot a bunch of girls in a gym because you are mad at them for not having sex with you.
 
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I dont think this will happen. I would just pay for it if need be. I thought you guys would be happy.... the first sign of a true DJ is to not give two shiets about girls or what they think of them
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dude its fine to want to have sex with girls lol

monkeys want it, lions want it, whales want it and so do we.

its one of our human drives, to replicate and have healthy offspring.

girls are not the enemy, the best thing you can do is go out and talk to women.
 
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I dont think this will happen. I would just pay for it if need be. I thought you guys would be happy.... the first sign of a true DJ is to not give two shiets about girls or what they think of them
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You get it all WRONG son. Being a DJ does not mean you abandon women all together and get your pleasure through pornography. But rather be swift in handling women however you want and dumped them when they misbehave. Your frustration at this stage with women sound more gay. Personally, I would prefer you to be gay than to turn out to be this guy .
 
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judoguy said:
I dont think this will happen. I would just pay for it if need be. I thought you guys would be happy.... the first sign of a true DJ is to not give two shiets about girls or what they think of them
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The whole point is supposed to be you don't lead into a relationship with your heart first, not that you give up women all together. I'll just go on and say it: you're rejecting every woman because some of them have rejected you. Instead of learning how deal with them, you've shut yourself off in some fit of bitterness instead of doing the work it would require to better yourself. If you want to keep your direction, fine: it's a free country. But if you realy want to grow, don't stop at one point of development and take it to the extreme.
 
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judoguy said:
well over the last few days I have spent countless hours in deep meditation and thought and have finally made the transition to asexuality. I no longer look at women lustfully and get complete satisfaction from Pornography only.

I have cut out all women in my life. If I must talk to them, I talk to them minimally and make no effort to prolong the conversation any longer than need be. They have no use in the world except to suck the life out of us strong men and to make babies. I realize now why so many civilizations have dealt with them in the way that they have. They are mischevous to the utmost. Even Ghangus Khan, the most fearsome warrior in history was eventually killed by a woman that ensnared him with lust.

I am so happy to be free of the bondage of lust and can now focus on enjoyment of other things in life knowing that I will never be with another woman free's you like no other.
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Nonsense. Absolute lies. This is reactionary stuff to save your pride after being hurt by either one particular girl, or a series of oneitises that you've failed to dominate. Here comes the kicker, so pay close attention: If you were genuinely turning A-sexual then you wouldn't come to sosuave to tell everyone about it.

Saying this stuff makes you feel better, because you have an audience. You just want attention and a reaction, and that's why you'll continue to stare at this screen and constantly hit refresh, waiting for more responses.

If you're genuinely a-sexual, then get on with your life and stop visiting a website which is dedicated to helping people with girls.
 
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look hes clearly in a bad place yo, give him a break.

dude get some decent pick up training if you can afford it, will set you on the right track a lot faster. If you really cant afford it, then get a wing and go out and talk to girls.

there is no need to feel alone or trapped, often the biggest problems people have are the most common as well.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ok, so to put it a milder way. You're currently very bitter about women because you've been hurt. The way to deal with it is not to stomp your feet like a child and renounce women. Realise that you have failed to understand / attract women, look at what you did wrong, and get better. Lying to yourself and others is counter productive. You're acting like a woman (but, we've all been there).

Happiness is the overcoming of struggle.
 
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I have a friend that did that. Its been a good 7 years I think. No porn, no gfs, nothing.

Its a lonely world out there. Good luck.
 
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Lol all you guys Can STFU because i bet all thats boosting there little egos talking about this guy are just as bad if not worse off...

look dude...u dont have to give off women....but ya i recommend u take time off and find something to love that for you and only you..

women like guys they have to chase after...a challenge...what better than a man who has something going for him and he really doesnt give a **** about her?!

so find your thing...whether its Sports....music..your job...your hobbie..just find a first priority and women will come easy.. :up:

all you other dumbasses can keep jerkin off...if you dont have something good to say and you say it anyway than your not a DJ...your just AFC just like him dummies... :kick:

good luck dude :up:
 
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I suppose your lack of social skills propelled this strange revelation. Its not possible to be "a-sexual", because that itself means being able to reproduce without the help of a sexual partner, i.e a seahorse.

I think what your problem is, and I maintain "IS" because this is certainly not a solution to your problem is that you are so concerend with the vagina of a female that you dont know how to just hang with them and have a good time without thinking of sex. Which is what sets you back in your interactions with female. Though I detest, and often down-talk "relationships" in its standard form as we know now, crafted by society, I don't hate females as you clearly do. You'll never seduce females if you can't get rid of this mentallity that "females are these heinous beasts that live only to crush the hearts of men" and realize sex is just a by product of esteemed social skills with the opposite sex.

Good luck on your journey, your problem is far from "solved" ..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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