"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I fell in love, how do I get out of this?

andreihaha

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I'm going to continue to fight it and maintain frame. If she wants to bring up exclusivity then that's a different story lol. I've found another interesting girl to keep me busy lol.
You don't have to fight it. You should just enjoy it.
The only thing I'd say you should do is act as normal, don't become an emotional lesbian.

I too have met a girl a month ago that I love. I'm not pus$ywhipped, I don't give up on stuff that's important to me. All that's changed is that now I have a partner to share a lot of stuff with. If I'm feeling romantic, I'll act so, but in my normal manly self. And I'm not afraid of sh1t.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Velasco

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I do however sympathize with not wanting to relingulish your control over her :)
 
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You don't have to fight it. You should just enjoy it.
The only thing I'd say you should do is act as normal, don't become an emotional lesbian.

I too have met a girl a month ago that I love. I'm not pus$ywhipped, I don't give up on stuff that's important to me. All that's changed is that now I have a partner to share a lot of stuff with. If I'm feeling romantic, I'll act so, but in my normal manly self. And I'm not afraid of sh1t.
I did go ahead and delete tik tok and some youtube content creators out of my life that I felt like were stroking my anxiety when it came to women lol.
 
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