"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I feel trapped

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I sit here everyday looking at the same screen, stuck in the same motions day to day. Nothing differs at all, always the same. And what can I do about it?? I honestly have no idea. I want to get out and go some place else, but theres NO WAY that its possible.

I sit here in my room...in my parents house wondering what all my friends that left for college are doin and what im missing out on. Just to let you know, that feeling sucks. Going to a community college is one of the biggest mistakes ive made. If i could go back to hs, i would get my act together, be informed about college, and go somewhere else for the whole true college experience.

Its sucks but sh*t, what can ya do??
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
I sit here everyday looking at the same screen, stuck in the same motions day to day. Nothing differs at all, always the same. And what can I do about it?? I honestly have no idea. I want to get out and go some place else, but theres NO WAY that its possible.

I sit here in my room...in my parents house wondering what all my friends that left for college are doin and what im missing out on. Just to let you know, that feeling sucks. Going to a community college is one of the biggest mistakes ive made. If i could go back to hs, i would get my act together, be informed about college, and go somewhere else for the whole true college experience.

Its sucks but sh*t, what can ya do??
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Just start applying for better colleges. Check about financial aid there. Go play pool or something. Just get out and do SOMETHING, even if its running.
 
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Re: Re: I feel trapped

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Just start applying for better colleges. Check about financial aid there. Go play pool or something. Just get out and do SOMETHING, even if its running.
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You were just the person i was hoping would respond. Whats your sn on aim??
 
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Re: Re: Re: I feel trapped

Originally posted by oakraiderz2
You were just the person i was hoping would respond. Whats your sn on aim??
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I know how you feel bro. My car has been in the shop for like a month....I'm about to go mentaly insane.....:p

For real though, eternal had a good idea go play some pool. Do you have a membership at a gym? Does you college have any clubs? exc...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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