"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I feel trapped

oakraiderz2

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I sit here everyday looking at the same screen, stuck in the same motions day to day. Nothing differs at all, always the same. And what can I do about it?? I honestly have no idea. I want to get out and go some place else, but theres NO WAY that its possible.

I sit here in my room...in my parents house wondering what all my friends that left for college are doin and what im missing out on. Just to let you know, that feeling sucks. Going to a community college is one of the biggest mistakes ive made. If i could go back to hs, i would get my act together, be informed about college, and go somewhere else for the whole true college experience.

Its sucks but sh*t, what can ya do??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
I sit here everyday looking at the same screen, stuck in the same motions day to day. Nothing differs at all, always the same. And what can I do about it?? I honestly have no idea. I want to get out and go some place else, but theres NO WAY that its possible.

I sit here in my room...in my parents house wondering what all my friends that left for college are doin and what im missing out on. Just to let you know, that feeling sucks. Going to a community college is one of the biggest mistakes ive made. If i could go back to hs, i would get my act together, be informed about college, and go somewhere else for the whole true college experience.

Its sucks but sh*t, what can ya do??
Just start applying for better colleges. Check about financial aid there. Go play pool or something. Just get out and do SOMETHING, even if its running.
 

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Re: Re: I feel trapped

Originally posted by eternal
Just start applying for better colleges. Check about financial aid there. Go play pool or something. Just get out and do SOMETHING, even if its running.
You were just the person i was hoping would respond. Whats your sn on aim??
 

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Re: Re: Re: I feel trapped

Originally posted by oakraiderz2
You were just the person i was hoping would respond. Whats your sn on aim??
theonecrazykid46
 

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I know how you feel bro. My car has been in the shop for like a month....I'm about to go mentaly insane.....:p

For real though, eternal had a good idea go play some pool. Do you have a membership at a gym? Does you college have any clubs? exc...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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