well about one of my other posts.... When i was dating some girl, this guy tried to fight me over her. Not in order to protect her, just to fight me because he was butthurt or something. I didnt fight him, i walked away. Awhile later she broke up with me for him. Was this a weak thing of me to do..... should i of fought him?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I feel small..
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Re: Re: Re: I feel small..
Don't sulk over this. Learn from it.
Tell me something do you think you can take this guy?
Your honour and your reputation has been damaged in this. And that is why the girl has left you.
Honestly, I would start something with him and kick his ass in. If you do this now when you are young you won't ever let people talk advantage of you when you are older. You can't kick the crap out of someone and get away with it when you are older. I used to fight a lot when I was in high school. I don't regret any of it either. In fact, I only regret the fights I didn't start.
If you are not a fighter, then at the very least just learn to stand up for yourself. That s the lesson that you must learn. If you don't stand up for yourself you won't get any respect. Don't let people talk about you like that either. Put them in their place.
If I was in your shoes then I would accept what those people are saying. They are correct. Women like power and he showed you up. Showed her how week you are.
Don't sulk over this. Learn from it.
Tell me something do you think you can take this guy?
Your honour and your reputation has been damaged in this. And that is why the girl has left you.
Honestly, I would start something with him and kick his ass in. If you do this now when you are young you won't ever let people talk advantage of you when you are older. You can't kick the crap out of someone and get away with it when you are older. I used to fight a lot when I was in high school. I don't regret any of it either. In fact, I only regret the fights I didn't start.
If you are not a fighter, then at the very least just learn to stand up for yourself. That s the lesson that you must learn. If you don't stand up for yourself you won't get any respect. Don't let people talk about you like that either. Put them in their place.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
SpeedRunner
Don Juan
I'm not a fighter either, I like to work things out and find peaceful solutions. But regardless, I will stand my ground nomatter what. There are some bad people in the world and I will protect myself by any means necessary.
englishman
Master Don Juan
smack him in the back of the head.....
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Go Mike Tyson on his butt and bite his friggin ear!
Seriously man...you ain't suppose to let some guy own you like that.
Seriously man...you ain't suppose to let some guy own you like that.
shrewd
Don Juan
kick his ass!
the funniest part about most people is that they think they are tough ****, but when you push back, they collapse so easily. I am not saying this guy will back down, but if this guy is just trying to start ****, self defense is a *****
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I doubt you will get the girl, and this choice you made had any affect on her. however girls do get interested when they hear about fights you get in, but it depends on the girl and the situation.
. I doubt you will get the girl, and this choice you made had any affect on her. however girls do get interested when they hear about fights you get in, but it depends on the girl and the situation.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.