"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I feel pity and I don't know what to do.

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Babnik

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If I go with a girl somewhere and I don't like her in the end, but SHE likes me and has a crush on me and it shows - what do you do?

I happen to go out with a few girls who wanted ME and nobody else. I stopped communicating with them, but once in a while I meet them at parties and they give this sad stare and I know she has feelings for me...

It makes me feel awful and makes me feel great pity for them.

I am not sensetive to my own feelings, but I am VERY sensetive to feelings of others.

With one particular girl it keeps persisting... I don't know what to do.
I know for sure we shouldn't be together but how can I stop a girl from wanting me or thinking about me or anything else for that matter?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Me too dude. Some girl has a huge crush on me. She texts me all the time wanting to do somthing together. Shes alright but def not what I'm looking for. The only reason I'm going with it is cause Im a huge afc and have nothing better going on.
 
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The simplest thing is tell the woman you do not feel a ROMANTIC connection between the two of you. If she does not get it, then ignore her completely and move on. She will eventually go after someone else.
 
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Hmmm.... how would a woman treat an AFC that likes her?

Maybe they feel pity for pu$$ies like you feel pity for these girls.
 
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