"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I feel pity and I don't know what to do.

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Babnik

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If I go with a girl somewhere and I don't like her in the end, but SHE likes me and has a crush on me and it shows - what do you do?

I happen to go out with a few girls who wanted ME and nobody else. I stopped communicating with them, but once in a while I meet them at parties and they give this sad stare and I know she has feelings for me...

It makes me feel awful and makes me feel great pity for them.

I am not sensetive to my own feelings, but I am VERY sensetive to feelings of others.

With one particular girl it keeps persisting... I don't know what to do.
I know for sure we shouldn't be together but how can I stop a girl from wanting me or thinking about me or anything else for that matter?
 

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Me too dude. Some girl has a huge crush on me. She texts me all the time wanting to do somthing together. Shes alright but def not what I'm looking for. The only reason I'm going with it is cause Im a huge afc and have nothing better going on.
 
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The simplest thing is tell the woman you do not feel a ROMANTIC connection between the two of you. If she does not get it, then ignore her completely and move on. She will eventually go after someone else.
 
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Hmmm.... how would a woman treat an AFC that likes her?

Maybe they feel pity for pu$$ies like you feel pity for these girls.
 
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