"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I feel pity and I don't know what to do.

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Babnik

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If I go with a girl somewhere and I don't like her in the end, but SHE likes me and has a crush on me and it shows - what do you do?

I happen to go out with a few girls who wanted ME and nobody else. I stopped communicating with them, but once in a while I meet them at parties and they give this sad stare and I know she has feelings for me...

It makes me feel awful and makes me feel great pity for them.

I am not sensetive to my own feelings, but I am VERY sensetive to feelings of others.

With one particular girl it keeps persisting... I don't know what to do.
I know for sure we shouldn't be together but how can I stop a girl from wanting me or thinking about me or anything else for that matter?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Me too dude. Some girl has a huge crush on me. She texts me all the time wanting to do somthing together. Shes alright but def not what I'm looking for. The only reason I'm going with it is cause Im a huge afc and have nothing better going on.
 
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The simplest thing is tell the woman you do not feel a ROMANTIC connection between the two of you. If she does not get it, then ignore her completely and move on. She will eventually go after someone else.
 
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Hmmm.... how would a woman treat an AFC that likes her?

Maybe they feel pity for pu$$ies like you feel pity for these girls.
 
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