"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I feel nervous by men because"Men always think about sex"

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Not all men are like this but it's a stereotype. i feel kinda nervous around men because i feel like they are judging every part of my body (whether it's sexy or not) since "they always have sex on their mind"....

most people do say im pretty but i just feel nervous by guys because they are such sexual creatures (most of them)...especially the tall, muscular, gym-lovers who have testosterone all over their body
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"Don't you feel eyes moving over your body, Clarice? And don't your eyes seek out the things you want?"
 

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You are either a troll which is what I'm guessing, or unwittingly dumb.
 

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AttackFormation said:
You are either a troll which is what I'm guessing, or unwittingly dumb.
Can you tell me why are you calling me a troll? I bet if a male user asked a question of feeling nervous around women...you guys would definable help him out:rolleyes:

Double standards!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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femaleuser said:
Not all men are like this but it's a stereotype. i feel kinda nervous around men because i feel like they are judging every part of my body (whether it's sexy or not) since "they always have sex on their mind"....

most people do say im pretty but i just feel nervous by guys because they are such sexual creatures (most of them)...especially the tall, muscular, gym-lovers who have testosterone all over their body
Lol, don't flatter yourself. They probably don't look at you that way.
 

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Do you feel nervous all the time or only if you are attracted to the guy checking you out?

If you can tell the guy is attracted to you do the nerves go away? Is it a turn on?

Would you rather guys not check out?
 

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Slickster said:
Do you feel nervous all the time or only if you are attracted to the guy checking you out?

If you can tell the guy is attracted to you do the nerves go away? Is it a turn on?

Would you rather guys not check out?
Only if he's attractive.... If he does like me, I would feel even more nervous because there will be one question at the back of my mind: is he imagining me in a sex scene... And that would make me nervous! I prefer him not checking me out
 

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Don't you have somewhere better to post this nonsense than a men's forum?
 

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femaleuser said:
Not all men are like this but it's a stereotype. i feel kinda nervous around men because i feel like they are judging every part of my body (whether it's sexy or not) since "they always have sex on their mind"....

most people do say im pretty but i just feel nervous by guys because they are such sexual creatures (most of them)...especially the tall, muscular, gym-lovers who have testosterone all over their body
get used to it, because thats what we are doing
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yes, almost every part of your body will be harshly judged. From your chest down to your toes. Unless your guy is a caveman with low standards who hasn't seen a girl since his birth. DEAL with it.


"But you should love me for who I am". Lol
 

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That is a limiting belief. Change your beliefs because it is not going to help you in anyway.
 

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LMFAO said:
Don't you have somewhere better to post this nonsense than a men's forum?
You guys are being very mean and nasty. Whenever men visit women forums, we always welcome them! And you guys are being very mean

If you guys help me out.,.. This will be my last thread. Btw, is it ok if a woman uses sheets to cover up her body during sex? Will it still be fun for you? I don't have low self esteem.. I just don't like being looked at with lust... It makes me feel dirty and uncomfortable
 

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femaleuser said:
Can you tell me why are you calling me a troll? I bet if a male user asked a question of feeling nervous around women...you guys would definable help him out:rolleyes:

Double standards!
The odds of you actually being a female and not a man trolling the forum are low in my eyes, so I don't take your posts seriously. But in the off-chance that you're serious, I called you unwittingly dumb because when you say "i just feel nervous by guys because they are such sexual creatures (most of them)...especially the tall, muscular, gym-lovers who have testosterone all over their body" you don't realise your own projection. It's not the "tall, muscular, gym-loving testosterone guys" who are doing it, it's you doing it to them because they have traits you like and then you blame them because "It makes me feel dirty and uncomfortable" so you project instead. You saying something like that tells me you are either a troll or a woman, but then again because you are projecting and using sentences that include the word "mean", it would not surprise me if you were a woman and not a troll unless you've practised.
 

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femaleuser said:
I just don't like being looked at with lust... It makes me feel dirty and uncomfortable
Sounds like you have some boring sex, jussayin'.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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you all are just lame...if u dnt knw wat to say dnt reply...pssh..ok back to u sweetie...ur problem might be that u have a low self-esteem or some kinda insecurity if men are looking at u that way it shows that ur somewhat attracted feel good about ur self and let em look...ur not weird and there is nothing wrong there is alot ur type..and i agree that ur sex life might be boring..u just need to build ur confidence and feel good about ur body
 

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joshy said:
you all are just lame...if u dnt knw wat to say dnt reply...pssh..ok back to u sweetie...ur problem might be that u have a low self-esteem or some kinda insecurity if men are looking at u that way it shows that ur somewhat attracted feel good about ur self and let em look...ur not weird and there is nothing wrong there is alot ur type..and i agree that ur sex life might be boring..u just need to build ur confidence and feel good about ur body
I don't have low self esteem... I just don't want anyone (esp attractive guys) to look at me in a sexual way because it makes me feel "dirty"
 

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You might wanna move to a Muslim country then, over there you can cover yourself with sheets all the time
 

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dk1990S111 said:
You might wanna move to a Muslim country then, over there you can cover yourself with sheets all the time
Actually that's an awesome idea... I can't believe I didn't think about that lol



Thanks!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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