Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You know what Viper, I've had enough with your sh*t. All you do is COMPLAIN COMPLAIN COMPLAIN. The guy asked for advice NOT for you to b*tch about something else. Why don't you go suck a d*ck or something because it's not like you really want to get girls AND at least it will keep your mouth shut.Originally posted by Viper
If most people in the group are Asian, it's not being racist, dumbass, it's simply a fact.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Opportunistic aren't we? :crackup:Originally posted by theNEWDJ
oh LEARN TO DRIVE AND GET A CAR too, the younger chicks will need rides n u give them a ride - for a price
It work where I live.Originally posted by DJ4Real
Opportunistic aren't we? :crackup:
"for a price".
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Talk about making something out of nothing. The only one who is complaining is you, unless there's like some hidden text on this page, it's obvious your the only one complaining here.Originally posted by bluelemond
You know what Viper, I've had enough with your sh*t. All you do is COMPLAIN COMPLAIN COMPLAIN. The guy asked for advice NOT for you to b*tch about something else. Why don't you go suck a d*ck or something because it's not like you really want to get girls AND at least it will keep your mouth shut.