You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You know what Viper, I've had enough with your sh*t. All you do is COMPLAIN COMPLAIN COMPLAIN. The guy asked for advice NOT for you to b*tch about something else. Why don't you go suck a d*ck or something because it's not like you really want to get girls AND at least it will keep your mouth shut.Originally posted by Viper
If most people in the group are Asian, it's not being racist, dumbass, it's simply a fact.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Opportunistic aren't we? :crackup:Originally posted by theNEWDJ
oh LEARN TO DRIVE AND GET A CAR too, the younger chicks will need rides n u give them a ride - for a price
It work where I live.Originally posted by DJ4Real
Opportunistic aren't we? :crackup:
"for a price".
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Talk about making something out of nothing. The only one who is complaining is you, unless there's like some hidden text on this page, it's obvious your the only one complaining here.Originally posted by bluelemond
You know what Viper, I've had enough with your sh*t. All you do is COMPLAIN COMPLAIN COMPLAIN. The guy asked for advice NOT for you to b*tch about something else. Why don't you go suck a d*ck or something because it's not like you really want to get girls AND at least it will keep your mouth shut.