“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I feel like I'm going backwards

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It seemed that a month ago i was so much further ahead than I am now. Then I was initiating conversations with girls, the one girl i especially like was even initiating with me. Then the snow came. I was home for literally a week with no school because of it, and all I did was stay at home, watch tv, and go on the computer.

Now that I'm back in school I feel like things just aren't going as well. I'm more nervous to approach, and feel father from asking this girl out than I was before. It's like I know what I have to do but I just don't do it. I know I have to just start talking to her again I just don't do it. Im starting to work out more and I'm going to go to sleep earlier from now on (which I think may have to do with it). Anyway, how I feel just sucks right now. Any suggestions on what to do? I'll keep you guys updated.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You're in the famous comfort zone trap. Break out of it by doing outlandish, unbelievable, nasty shit, without the fear of what peers think, or of making mistakes, and you'll be back to being awesome in no time.
 
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Thanks for the advice, I still can't get out of the ups and downs, today wasn't as good - I missed an easy opportunity to have a conversation with a girl I walked right past her... I really need to get out of my comfort zone. I'm not sure how far I can really go without seeming too crazy but I'm definitely going to start making sure I don't miss out on ANY more opportunities.
 
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