I feel like I'm going backwards

[sportsguy]

It seemed that a month ago i was so much further ahead than I am now. Then I was initiating conversations with girls, the one girl i especially like was even initiating with me. Then the snow came. I was home for literally a week with no school because of it, and all I did was stay at home, watch tv, and go on the computer.

Now that I'm back in school I feel like things just aren't going as well. I'm more nervous to approach, and feel father from asking this girl out than I was before. It's like I know what I have to do but I just don't do it. I know I have to just start talking to her again I just don't do it. Im starting to work out more and I'm going to go to sleep earlier from now on (which I think may have to do with it). Anyway, how I feel just sucks right now. Any suggestions on what to do? I'll keep you guys updated.

 

[LinkinParkROX]

You're in the famous comfort zone trap. Break out of it by doing outlandish, unbelievable, nasty shit, without the fear of what peers think, or of making mistakes, and you'll be back to being awesome in no time.

 

[sportsguy]

Thanks for the advice, I still can't get out of the ups and downs, today wasn't as good - I missed an easy opportunity to have a conversation with a girl I walked right past her... I really need to get out of my comfort zone. I'm not sure how far I can really go without seeming too crazy but I'm definitely going to start making sure I don't miss out on ANY more opportunities.