"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i feel like im being avoided..

Jizz

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i feel like im being avoided.. or u just been a busy bee lately?

This girl who has a non serious bf, who i stupidly told i liked, said this to me today because the last week or so i havent contacted her, and when on msn ive made her make the first move to talk and everytime she has, ive told her im busy or i talked for like 30 secs before going!

i just replied to her saying that i have 2 maths exams coming up so ive been revising for that!

am i reading to much into it, or does it mean anything?

ta for any help/advice
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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foomee

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Yeah... I understand why she feels you're avoiding her. It's making her want you even more, but still... you should make it up to her by taking her out sometime or something. If you do that too much, eventually she might just forget about you and stop talking... which is something I doubt you want.
 

ethnomethodologist

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Originally posted by Jizz
am i reading to much into it, or does it mean anything?

ta for any help/advice
Well, it means you have oneitis. You are reading in too much, but it does mean something.

It means she's interested in you, you have been avoiding her, and that she now has the answer. She respects you now, and its your choice as to when you contact her, and tell her you want to get to know her again, tell her you want to catch up.

She will expect what she wants when you talk to her, she will tell you she wants to know what you are going to talk about. Tell her you want to get to know her REALLY well.
 
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