"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i feel like im being avoided..

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Jizz

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i feel like im being avoided.. or u just been a busy bee lately?

This girl who has a non serious bf, who i stupidly told i liked, said this to me today because the last week or so i havent contacted her, and when on msn ive made her make the first move to talk and everytime she has, ive told her im busy or i talked for like 30 secs before going!

i just replied to her saying that i have 2 maths exams coming up so ive been revising for that!

am i reading to much into it, or does it mean anything?

ta for any help/advice
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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foomee

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Yeah... I understand why she feels you're avoiding her. It's making her want you even more, but still... you should make it up to her by taking her out sometime or something. If you do that too much, eventually she might just forget about you and stop talking... which is something I doubt you want.
 
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Originally posted by Jizz
am i reading to much into it, or does it mean anything?

ta for any help/advice
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Well, it means you have oneitis. You are reading in too much, but it does mean something.

It means she's interested in you, you have been avoiding her, and that she now has the answer. She respects you now, and its your choice as to when you contact her, and tell her you want to get to know her again, tell her you want to catch up.

She will expect what she wants when you talk to her, she will tell you she wants to know what you are going to talk about. Tell her you want to get to know her REALLY well.
 
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