"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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neonlimited

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at school i have plenty of friends and talk to them, and on the weekends ill do stuff with this ONE group of people and that is only occasionally... i dont really have anyone to call to do something , (no girls either).. what can i do
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Underoath

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You are lonely no? Now, you know what to do. Go talk to some people and be really tight with them. In fact, why don't you try talkikng to some NEW people? That might be a breath of fresh air.

Keep yourself busy. As you get to know more people and make them your friends, schedule stuff everyday to make yourself busy. Get a girlfriend.
 

souporman

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Originally posted by neonlimited
i dont really have anyone to call to do something , (no girls either).. what can i do
Get peoples #s
 

Layla

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Join a club either in or out of the school. GREAT way to meet new people with similar interests.
 

Disconnect

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Join a sport. Preferrably a very competitive and team-oriented one. Football or Rugby are good. That way, you really get tight with your teammates, since all of you are fighting against a common enemy, so to speak.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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UltimateScoundrel

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You can't be a *****. You act like this problem is beyond your control. Go meet people, get numbers, make friends. Don't you have just a pile of girls phone numbers? If not, start collecting them. Damnit.
 

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<This topic has been moved to the Elementary School Forums>

Hahaha, I couldn't help myself.
 

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APPROACH!!

. Just go up to ppl in your college and get their numbers and make new friends by meeting ppl, talking to them, and getting involved with them etc... After u get their number call them up and make arrangements for the week-end etc. Just approach ppl and be friendly... making friends really isn’t hard man, now go make urself some new friends;)


Laterz...
 

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Originally posted by neonlimited
at school i have plenty of friends and talk to them, and on the weekends ill do stuff with this ONE group of people and that is only occasionally... i dont really have anyone to call to do something , (no girls either).. what can i do
"Hey. lets go do <some sh1t added here> this weekend."
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The Master Disaster

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No seriously there is a sale. I know a good target rhymes with your train except it starts with a b.
 

kidkoala

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Yo man. I feel for you. But the thing is i am kinda like that i fit into no one group. I just kinda wander around socialize with a lot of different people. The fact of the matter is sometimes it feels lonely. But thi s is one of the most important and unique traits a person can have...fierce individualism. Later in life people will flock to u. ANd u r a natural born leader. Accept yourself and others will follow suit and u will become that leader
 
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