"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I feel like everything just stopped.

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I'd say since February I haven't really flirted with a girl or done anything (I was gaming at least 5 chicks in mid-February.)

Girls seem to have lost interest in me, but that isn't my problem.

I really have no desire to be in a relationship or hook up with girls or anything. I lost a lot of my initiative.

Is there any way to get out of this phase and get back to what I was doing before?

(I made a topic like this a while back, but got a response to just chill out because of my age.)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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Dito. I've haven't talk to any girls in awhile. The very last time I was seeing a girl was in Februay. I've kinda of fallen off due to a few self limiting beliefs about not driving until September, etc. At one point I just felt like it was all over. But recently I've started to get back on track a little. Then I noticed these beliefs started to comeback. But I noticed that alot of girls stopped talking to me and I often find myself forcing convosations (which I hate doing btw). But starting Monday I have to start up again. I miss flirting, kinoing, etc with girls. I need to get back on track fully. I have to fight this beliefs and clear mind. It won't be easy but I've been on the sidelines for too long.

As for your situtation I kinda relate to you in a way. I kinda of lost the desire to be THE MAN. I haven't done anything big recently. I haven't gotten a female's number in 1 month. I feel the same way at times.

Btw, does anybody know were I can find a thread to overcome self-limiting beliefs?

And Is there really any way to get out of this phase and get back to what we were doing before?
 
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