"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

I feel like everything just stopped.

E

Ether

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 14, 2007
Messages
37
Reaction score
0
I'd say since February I haven't really flirted with a girl or done anything (I was gaming at least 5 chicks in mid-February.)

Girls seem to have lost interest in me, but that isn't my problem.

I really have no desire to be in a relationship or hook up with girls or anything. I lost a lot of my initiative.

Is there any way to get out of this phase and get back to what I was doing before?

(I made a topic like this a while back, but got a response to just chill out because of my age.)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

R

rkc09

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 4, 2008
Messages
146
Reaction score
0
Location
USA
Dito. I've haven't talk to any girls in awhile. The very last time I was seeing a girl was in Februay. I've kinda of fallen off due to a few self limiting beliefs about not driving until September, etc. At one point I just felt like it was all over. But recently I've started to get back on track a little. Then I noticed these beliefs started to comeback. But I noticed that alot of girls stopped talking to me and I often find myself forcing convosations (which I hate doing btw). But starting Monday I have to start up again. I miss flirting, kinoing, etc with girls. I need to get back on track fully. I have to fight this beliefs and clear mind. It won't be easy but I've been on the sidelines for too long.

As for your situtation I kinda relate to you in a way. I kinda of lost the desire to be THE MAN. I haven't done anything big recently. I haven't gotten a female's number in 1 month. I feel the same way at times.

Btw, does anybody know were I can find a thread to overcome self-limiting beliefs?

And Is there really any way to get out of this phase and get back to what we were doing before?
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top