Hey fellas dont wanna make this sound like a sad story b/c you know that is completely sissy. Anyways, I'm 21 year old guy whos almost 22 very soon. I am pretty sure theres many people like myself that is young but nothing goes on with their life. Of course there is no excuse for that besides take action like the DJ bible says. I should have already graduated college already but I am a 1 year or 1.5 years behind b/c i had to change my major last semester after i screwed up.
A few things about me. I'm not tall or short... about 5'8 Asian so maybe on short side by for Asians in U.S its pretty average. I have lot of friends that are still in school being behind as well and some that are graduated. Unfortunately, most of them are guy friends. Anyways, i know anything you want to do you need motivation b/c that is what drives anyone to do anything. I don't go to clubs or bars but always wanted to go. The thing is i always ask my buddies to go and all of them look at me like crazy. They all still stay at home play video games Xbox 360 , ps3, and wii.
Most of them are very introverted. I use to be very introverted but ever since i read conversation articles, i am beginning to do pretty good for myself. A lot of my friends say when i talk, i am very energetic which is definitely good.
I enjoy sports, music and like poker. I remember last few years i always wanted to turn 21 as fast as possible so i can gamble and play poker at the casinos. Up into today, i think i only went to casino like 3 times only. The reason is b/c none of my friends are interested and they keep saying they dont have money. None of us have a job at all and this is about 7-8 people, 2 of them are very close. I have one good friend that is doing good with an internship paid which makes me feel very good b/c he feels very motivated.
Its like I always tell my buddies whether they are real close or not, lets go to a bar this friday or hit or the casinos for a good time. They say no money but they spend money on xbox wii and ps3 and games. I say who cares about gambling, lets just catch some free shows then or get some drinks. They always keep looking for excuses for not coming.
And i know everything people say about social circle. The thing about me is if you just see me in the street or anywhere and dont know me, you probably think i look cool b/c i do dress good and have style. But most of friends all care about video games and just watch movies online when they can just have fun.
The thing is i am very motivated to do things but it is I am always going to have to do it by myself. On my bday last year, i went to casino by myself none of my friends wanted to go. I know they are good friends but its like they have no drive. Its like if i had a friend that feels excited AND SHOWS IT when we go play poker at a casino or anything exciting, I would feel real happy. This summer i wanted to go to Atlantic City every week or just stay for a few nights. None of my friends are interested and just say stop gambling when they aren't doing anything productive at all... i mean video games? Its like we are kids. We are all pretty much 22-23 already.
I am not sure if i am one of those people that has motivation but if none of their friends have motivation at all, then YOU start saying ahhh forget about it and dont even bother. Its like anything that seems fun, I am on my own now. I always wanted to do crazy stuff like sky diving and i am horrified by heights but not 1 of my friends are interested in any things.
Anyone can just give me some insight. Thanks fellas.
A few things about me. I'm not tall or short... about 5'8 Asian so maybe on short side by for Asians in U.S its pretty average. I have lot of friends that are still in school being behind as well and some that are graduated. Unfortunately, most of them are guy friends. Anyways, i know anything you want to do you need motivation b/c that is what drives anyone to do anything. I don't go to clubs or bars but always wanted to go. The thing is i always ask my buddies to go and all of them look at me like crazy. They all still stay at home play video games Xbox 360 , ps3, and wii.
Most of them are very introverted. I use to be very introverted but ever since i read conversation articles, i am beginning to do pretty good for myself. A lot of my friends say when i talk, i am very energetic which is definitely good.
I enjoy sports, music and like poker. I remember last few years i always wanted to turn 21 as fast as possible so i can gamble and play poker at the casinos. Up into today, i think i only went to casino like 3 times only. The reason is b/c none of my friends are interested and they keep saying they dont have money. None of us have a job at all and this is about 7-8 people, 2 of them are very close. I have one good friend that is doing good with an internship paid which makes me feel very good b/c he feels very motivated.
Its like I always tell my buddies whether they are real close or not, lets go to a bar this friday or hit or the casinos for a good time. They say no money but they spend money on xbox wii and ps3 and games. I say who cares about gambling, lets just catch some free shows then or get some drinks. They always keep looking for excuses for not coming.
And i know everything people say about social circle. The thing about me is if you just see me in the street or anywhere and dont know me, you probably think i look cool b/c i do dress good and have style. But most of friends all care about video games and just watch movies online when they can just have fun.
The thing is i am very motivated to do things but it is I am always going to have to do it by myself. On my bday last year, i went to casino by myself none of my friends wanted to go. I know they are good friends but its like they have no drive. Its like if i had a friend that feels excited AND SHOWS IT when we go play poker at a casino or anything exciting, I would feel real happy. This summer i wanted to go to Atlantic City every week or just stay for a few nights. None of my friends are interested and just say stop gambling when they aren't doing anything productive at all... i mean video games? Its like we are kids. We are all pretty much 22-23 already.
I am not sure if i am one of those people that has motivation but if none of their friends have motivation at all, then YOU start saying ahhh forget about it and dont even bother. Its like anything that seems fun, I am on my own now. I always wanted to do crazy stuff like sky diving and i am horrified by heights but not 1 of my friends are interested in any things.
Anyone can just give me some insight. Thanks fellas.