"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I feel broken

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Background: Met a girl, fell in love, now we're in a sort of long distance sort of open relationship because im at uni. Now we both know we're going to drift apart but the real problem is i feel like ive lost my sexuality. In this last month, i just havent felt myself when it comes to girls, its like ive taken a step back...or more a step sidewides, im not really interested in screwing any of them, just kinda being friends with them. I havent hit on a girl properly for months because i just feel so guilty because even though my girl says its ok, my last girl said that too and it turned out she was so hurt by it. So now i feel like a one girl fella with no girl.

I go out, i see a beautiful and im attracted to her, sometimes im even talking to her, looking into her eyes and i can feel the chemistry but then i just pull back and i dunno...i feel broken.

Anyway ever experienced anything like this because im still the same cheeky chap but now when i go out, its to socialise and girls dont even come into it but i kinda miss it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Id break up with the girl and stop watching porn and masturbating, also start working out.
 
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Im not "with" her to break up with her though. Like i got with a girl a few weeks ago and i felt so guilty after...thats just not me.

Also my masturbation habits have never affected me in the past, bit of an assumption right there.
 
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Mr Wright said:
Im not "with" her to break up with her though. Like i got with a girl a few weeks ago and i felt so guilty after...thats just not me.

Also my masturbation habits have never affected me in the past, bit of an assumption right there.
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Does that mean you're not gonna try? Don't ask for help if you're not prepared to fix it.
 
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Oh i want to fix it, i just dont think thats very good advice.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The fact like ive always enjoyed masturbating, so thats not the variable(if im going to get all scientific on it)
 
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I think DJs is the thing i'd do myself... but if i get it you say that you're down because you know you will break up? then go to some party , chill or whatever and rethink about what you want to do but you should really fix quick because if you don't do sh*t you feel like sh*t
 
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Mr Wright said:
The fact like ive always enjoyed masturbating, so thats not the variable(if im going to get all scientific on it)
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No, it very easily could be the variable. Maybe you were a more interesting person before, so girls were more interested in hooking up with you. Maybe you happened to have a higher sex drive then. Whatever the case, what was true then, when you were getting girls, is not true now. SO CHANGE THE NOW.

Quit masturbating, work out instead. You feel like you've lost your sexuality. What could be more obvious than refusing to give yourself sexual relief unless it's with another human being? Testosterone from exercise can't hurt either.

NorwegianDJ has some knowledge, don't be so quick to write it off.
 
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