"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I f'd up...how can I win back her trust....is it over?

mecca411

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Ok, I'm going to take your advice and drive up to see her. It's going to take me about 2.5hrs. The thing is..I don't even know what her plans are for today. I know that she has a dance class all day until about 4:30pm. I thought I would call her home and tell her mom what I was up to and find out if she would even be available. The problem is that I can't seem to reach her mother. SHe must be out Christmas shopping. What do I do now? I want to be there for between 6&7, but I have no idea if she'll even be around or if she has other plans. I really want it to be a surprise, but I'd feel akward if she had other things going. What should I do? Call for the road and just pretend that I'm at home and then just drop in on her? Let me know.

M.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Climax

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I'm on my way out.. but i'll try get as much sais as i can...

1) phone her friends and find out

2) go there anyways, rock yup at her house, and find out where she is, and go find her if she is not home.

3) try phoning her more and see if she answers... if she does, then maybe suggesting that she " needs to get ready to go out somewhere special" would be ok.

4) the most u have to loose out of all this is 2.5 hours of ur life, so go for it.

laterz... ;)

good luck...
 
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